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Discussion in 'Intimacy' started by lalithakumar, Apr 3, 2008.

  1. ranjuma1

    ranjuma1 New IL'ite

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    Re: Pls help

    Thank you mam :)
     
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    kaveemrk New IL'ite

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    Hey, Time duration not a matter. Try to do gently. U both get more pleasure
     
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    indojin123 New IL'ite

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    Re: Pls.help - Very confused about some personal intimacy question

    Women do masturbate.!!! dont think girls wont do masturbation!

    Thing is women curvature might make lots of men to get into mood. dat is why the statistics might say that 99% of boys do masturbate and 1% ll say lie :D
     
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    deepthireva New IL'ite

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    Re: Pls.help - Very confused about some personal intimacy question

    FYI, I have been married for around a year and oral is the only way i experience orgasm.
     
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    a little foreplay n creating an environment along with sm cosy talks will get u in mood to b lubricated enough. so tht there will b not much pain during intimacy.
     
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    Hi! I am married since last 16 months. Everything is normal in our sexlife but I had an issue in giving oral. My DH like it very much although he dint force me for it, but I feel bad to his disappointment. DH said its normal in sexlife and every ladies do it. We saw it in many adult movies, but I think it happens only in movies not in real. Though I am very frank to friends, I asked few of them of about it but all of them deny to talk about it. I tried to give him bj one/two times but failed. I am not getting acustomed with it. so please guide me regarding it.

    NEHA.
     
  7. priyanka123456

    priyanka123456 Senior IL'ite

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    no sexual role play in my life

    HI friends......
    Iam married 10 months ago...........happily arranged marriage........In the beginning we didnt have sex at all as my husb and myself were unaware of the exact intercourse.......My husb is very good person loves me a lot......but until i spoke to him regarding how to do it.......and it will bleed .....he didnt know anything about sex at all............also he has a fear that it will pain me........so nice of him.........but that has 2 happen rite.......until now we didnt have any intercourse......he is fat and has belly which restricts the insertion.......


    But what i think is.....even though we r not having the sex......we can try role play and satisfy ourselves....... but every day my husband is feeling tired and sleeps off at 10.30 itself.........Iam not understanding whether he is avoiding me or sex........I jus have bad nights sleep daily waiting for him........I even hinted him these many times by telling him dat he sleeps a lot and all.......but still the same thing happens daily........As a woman how can i directly ask him for roleplay.....Even when i hug him and kiss him.....he receives them but not deliver me........even if he does he does it only for 5mins.......and from last 1month iam having knee damage and doc has advised me complete rest......but still he cud satisfy me with role play.....but no......and also he is not interested in watching hot videos toooo....he tells me that "chi.....so sad about those girls na......"........

    IMP:even when I initiate it.....he enjoys it but instead of getting crazy on me he snoars and already into deep sleep.......

    frankly speaking iam not at all satisfied but i love my husband very much..............


    please give me help to come out of this situation..........
     
  8. MadhaviUP

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    Hi I feel luke warm water is best lubricant, jells are not good when ur are trying to conceive.
     
  9. priyanka123456

    priyanka123456 Senior IL'ite

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    Re: no sexual role play in my life

    plz frends.........dont jus read and move on.............plz help me out.......really am feeling depressed.........i have lots of interest but my hubby seems 2 hav no interest.......plz help me out.......
     
  10. priyanka123456

    priyanka123456 Senior IL'ite

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    Re: no sexual role play in my life

    hi frends............am getting msg notifications but unable 2 open the msgs..........plz share ur advices here itself..........thank u
     

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