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Newly Married - Questions about Intimacy!

Discussion in 'Intimacy' started by lalithakumar, Apr 3, 2008.

  1. Rakhii

    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    have you ever been in close physical proximity to your husband? If not, start with that. Start with simply holding hands and maybe just kissing. do this for a couple of days and see where that leads to. Its a starting point.
     
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  2. Rakhii

    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    Gaaawwwd, I feel like a slut; knew almost everything before I turned 16 (not that I slept outside marriage).
     
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    swamy24598 New IL'ite

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    Dim....

    you are right. it is a TROLL
     
  4. Rakhii

    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    lips....target the lips.

    Hey...how come your husband isnt encouraging you? These are the things you get to see in almost every movie these days. Have you seen the movie Murder (Emran hashmi I think)...its a soft ****. try watching that.
     
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    luckwaves Platinum IL'ite

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    I personally feel lets stop with this till we hear a green signal from the moderator . As the OP seems to be genuine at the same time looks more like a troll too.
     
  6. Rakhii

    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    what are you sorry for?
    But i am sorry though, I cannot communicate through PM.
     
  7. Rakhii

    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    I do not communicate with anyone whom I do not know for a long time Vali. I am sorry.
    But you can post your queries here; other ladies will be supportive.
     
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    Vasumathy Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Hi Vali rajan,
    More than 12 posts in less than a day about same thing looks odd. Don't it? Why do you want the ladies to write the private things in public. There are many public sources to know about sex and about our reproductive organs. You can try them to know the basics. Go with your intuition, thats your better guide.
    Don't get frustrated! It seems you get it so easily!
    Take care.
     
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  9. sweetyk

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    Hi Vali,

    I am not sure when you type so much here to know basics. If you try typing same in a Google search bar say "Basics of xxx" you will get ample info. You should not expect any person to share there personal stuff to share with you. When you know to type here you should be knowing to search in google. We are living in a 21st century where there is no lack of information on internet. I

    If you find it difficult searching and understanding online. My suggestion would be to go and talk to a lady doctor. Yes lady doctor like a gynacologist in your area. She will explain you in detail or suggest a specialist for couple to go. You can even take your husband.

    I feel this place is not where you can get detailed info. Its just a supporting forum.

    Wish you good luck

    Sweety
     
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    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    Vasu....please advise if we should respond. I dont know if I should feel sorry for her or just laugh my ass off.

    Good one Vali..
     
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