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Discussion in 'Intimacy' started by lalithakumar, Apr 3, 2008.

  1. LakshmiMohan

    LakshmiMohan Gold IL'ite

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    Also please don't make love only for the sake of having baby.Be cool.
     
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    shubha18 New IL'ite

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    Re: newly married

    Dear Sarki

    dont hesitate for anything ... be open with your husband for all the time.
    since you are newly married , you may be feeling shy whn husband approaching you..but its common... you will be ok after some days. enjoy the life each and everyday.

    oral sex is also one of the most important part in sex life which help both of you to get mood and enjoy...
    you should remove the hair, mariage time everybody will do that as of my experience with my friends. that area should be clean. this is also one way of attracting your husband.

    if you want some more info, dont hesitate to ask....
     
  3. Nithikav

    Nithikav New IL'ite

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    Hi sisters,
    Hope u all remember me. With all of ur great advices I had my intercourse successfully. We did after 1 month gap but still I had starting pain of inserting and after tat I don't have any paid. I feel tat I was naturally lubricated Bcoz of lots of foreplay. Without indusladies forum I wouldn't able to do this. This forum gave me lots of sisters and friends to whom I discuss so many things personally and it helped me a lot to cross over that pain. Thank you all. Trying to do more frequent as we are planning for baby. Can anyone help me how to increase iron level through food as I was having very low heamoglobin. I want to boost up with natural way in my daily food. Please dears help me out . Take care of u all.
     
  4. tsweety

    tsweety Silver IL'ite

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    Hi All,

    Thanks for your replies and also i read through all the posts in this thread... It was really helpful...And I think I can bear the pain somewhat now...I can feel the improvement,...:) :)
     
  5. tsweety

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    Hi Nithi,

    I am also facing similar problem.. low HB level ...my doctor said to have dates daily and instead of sugar you can add jagerry in milk... And also regularly take foods like fig,greens, pomegranate and beetroot.
    If you are non vegetarian you can have suvarotti(it is goat liver i think)...
     
  6. drchakravarthy

    drchakravarthy Senior IL'ite

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    Hi,

    Most often Sex is considered as only for reproduction.
    For animals, sexual activity is only for reproduction.
    For humans, Sexual activity is mainly NOT for reproduction, whereas it is for recreation.
    Hence the sexual activity should not be done as a mechanical act. It has to be the part of romance.
    Inadequate foreplay and inadequate lubrication can lead to painful intercourse. Hence you need to involve more on foreplay rather penetrative sex.

    regards

    Dr A CHAKRAVARTHY
    Consultant In Reproductive & Sexual Medicine
    Republic of India


     
  7. drchakravarthy

    drchakravarthy Senior IL'ite

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    Hi tsweety,

    you are suffering from Vaginismus which is mainly due to fear or anxiety.
    It can be managed by sex therapy which is kind of counseling technique. It desensitizes the fear and anxiety.
    regarding size of vagina, it is highly elastic. That means it can accommodate any bigger penis when slowly dilated. You need to consult a Sexologist / Doctor at your place for proper advice

    regards

    Dr A CHAKRAVARTHY
    Consultant in Reproductive & Sexual Medicine / Sexologist


     
  8. Akil123

    Akil123 New IL'ite

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    Hi,

    I need a help from u all friends...we are married for nearly 1 yr...
    we dint know how to do IC, when he asked has his penis passed inside, i will blink like anything...
    but my dh was very good to me, even in honeymoon we could'nt succeed...
    Penis will get harder when he get undressed but when he starts trying to penetrate it will go off...
    first 3 months passed like this...

    After that he could penetrate through me, i too came out of my shy a little...
    but still he could'nt ejaculate...
    after penetration we are doing it for nearly 20 mins...
    He has tried pushing fast, slow... but sperms are not coming out...

    Are we doing the IC properly?... y the sperms are not coming out?...

    We both are already nearing 30...
    I am very shy to ask about this to my mom even...
    need ur help friends...
     
  9. tsweety

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    Hi Akil,

    Did you try doing in your hand or oral sex? before IC try doing with your hand till ejaculation.As of my knowledge doing fast in hands will result in ejaculation...
     
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    Akil123 New IL'ite

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    sweety,

    Thanks for the reply...
    oral i have not tried... i am not comfortable yet to do it... have to make myself comfortable asap...

    by hand i have done many times...
    once when i tried to shake it faster he caught my hands and asked to stop doing it...
    so i always do it slowly only...
    next time i will try doing it faster once again...
     

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