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Newly Married - Questions about Intimacy!

Discussion in 'Intimacy' started by lalithakumar, Apr 3, 2008.

  1. akshayau

    akshayau New IL'ite

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    Thanks for the useful suggestions.

    I tried Vani's method and it worked. It made him get harder very quickly but again he is not able to sustain this hardness for more than 5 minutes after he starts it. So I tried oral on him despite his hesitation and I saw the hardness was long lasting. Thanks all.
     
  2. BuviVishal

    BuviVishal Gold IL'ite

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    Re: First night. HELP!

    Hi

    Very good forum for new married couples. Before marriage i dont know about sexual activities... i got married in last 20th june. still i am not get pregnant. I dont know where is the problem. I saw my dh keeps the hardness but once come out i feel that the sperms are come out. then i wiped with cloth. for every month we are expecting but still no use:-(.

    I have one doubt if periods day is extended shall we do intercourse??? 4h June is my date but still we doing sex. When we should not do intercourse. since we dont know when the baby will be formed.

    Please suggest me....One of my friend told me that if you have sex after your perods surely you will get pregant.

    Can you please anyone tell me clearly about this?
     
  3. BuviVishal

    BuviVishal Gold IL'ite

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    Re: First night. HELP!

    Dear ladies,
    No One respond :-:)-(. Periods came today:-(.I think its came because of did intercourse til periods day reached. Please friends give your valuable info regarding this. I am not able to ask this question to anyone . Today is my first day when I should have se.. At any cost I should get conceive in this coming attempt. 5th day my period wil be stopped. please tell the correct day to do intercourse

    after 5 months my thyroid level is got decreased.... I think now I can conceive....please girls help me
     
  4. SimpleGirl

    SimpleGirl Gold IL'ite

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    Re: First night. HELP!

    Hello Buvi..
    The best time for SI for concieving would be around the time you ovulate..Its different for every woman.. but Doctors say its mostly 14 days before your period starts... I would suggest using the Ovulation kit to determine that. Please go through the SMEP thread in this forum.. it has lots of information...

    Also dont give yourself an ultimatum, that you have to get pregnant any how next month...its not in your hands.. the more you expect it.. the more you will be depressed if that does not happen..... give it some time.. when the time comes for you.. no one can stop you from becoming pregnant.. so just relax..
    Lots of baby dust for you..
     
  5. BuviVishal

    BuviVishal Gold IL'ite

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    Thanks for reply smplegirl.

    Ovaluation kit means what??? i never used this. where i can buy this and how to use this. What it will show? In IL i have heared this in many threads. But dont have idea.

    Please clarrify my doubt
     
  6. veenaruban

    veenaruban Silver IL'ite

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    its not a must that you need to buy the kit........there are so many websites that calculate your ovulation dates.

    Just you need to keep a tab on your period dates exactly and put the input in those websites. They show you as when is your ovulation day. You will learn more in the website itself as what is ovulation and when you need to do IC and all other details.

    Just type as "ovulation calculator" in Google search.. Or " Ovulation symptoms". You will get an idea.

    Hope this mite help........
     
  7. sangiak

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    hi srimathi,
    there is really nothing dirty to consider regarding the 69 position. In fact, it is very intimate and love-making position that can make u and ur hubby go wild in sex. It is a very much loved position by many couples the world over and also in India. There is no harm in it. Only thing is before going to bed, make sure ur private parts and hubby's are clean and hygienic...then u can go right ahead on bed and enjoy giving him oral while he takes charge of urs...hope u have a nice time trying it...

    regards
    sangi
     
  8. pallavik96

    pallavik96 New IL'ite

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    Can please anyone explain me what is 69position? I am very sorry if i am being too personal...
     
  9. sangiak

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    Re: First night. HELP!

    hi Buvana,
    I hope your period would have ended by today. So tonight, u can straightaway go ahead and have sex with your hubby. Please place a pillow when u lie down flat on bed under ur low back so that the vagina is upward looking. Then, ask ur hubby to enter when he is really horny and hard enough and u r excited enough (wet inside), so that when he ejaculates, the entire semen gets deposited near ur cervix area...U can feel the vibrations when he is doing so, and after this is over, ask him to slowly withdraw, while u keep ur legs wide open and elevated (if possible over his shoulders as he enters you). Pls be in this position for 10-15 mins for the sperms to contact ur eggs and then u can get up and wash/wipe off the semen that spills out from ur vagina. Hope this is helpful.

    Try this method tonight and continuously for many nights....i think this will solve ur problem.

    regards and luv,
    sangi
     
    Last edited: Jul 12, 2012
  10. sangiak

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    Hi pallavi,
    69 position is group of sex position in which two people align themselves so that each person's mouth is near the other's genitals, simultaneously performing oral sex. To tell in simple words, while ur hubby lies in bed straight with face up and his organ erect, u will be lying on top of him in opposite direction (his face on ur vagina and ur face near his organ). In this position, both of you will be giving oral simultaneously and getting aroused easily.

    It is a wonderful and great method of turning on instantaneously. Only thing here is ensuring that you and hubby try to keep the genitals clean and hygienic just before trying this on bed.

    regards
    sangi.
     

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