Discussion in 'Friends & Neighbours' started by priyakannan, Nov 21, 2019.
Do you have a soft corner for him?
If you have a happy marriage of 10 years, your husband is also your best friend with whom you should be able to talk about this. Sorry, I feel you are making an excuse with the so called "pressure". Not wanting to tell him is really hiding.
You might like the neighbor's attention and it might look harmless now. It always starts as a platonic friendship. Then, you enjoy talking to him; he becomes a great guy and a good listener. Before you know, you start confiding more with him than in your husband (not pre-meditated). That is the beginning of an emotional affair. Marriage can quickly be turned upside down and torn inside out.
It is better to confide what you wrote to us and share your thoughts with your husband, than handling it alone. Keeping it to yourself is when you give room to slip.
BTW, do you have any kids?
You asked for ILs advice. It is crystal clear.
Hope you made the right choice !
This amulet must be kicked out of indusladies..seriously she is very rude and disrespectful.
Whoever you are, you seriously need to be kicked out from this platform, why are u soo rude and disrespectful to others..strong women lift each other...you are a ducking waste of a person.someone really needs to give you a taste of your own medicine..I bet you already have a befitting reply to this comment cuz that's what u do..poor you I pity you..u are an unhappy person.
You need to be ducking kicked out of this platform