negative energy emitted from people

Hey there answer to your question both spiritually and scientifically like the Chandramukhi film if you have seen..

Firstly both of you have grown unfavourable feeling in your heart about them.This maybe beacuse of the past instances.So when you know they are going to come you are feeling frustated which shows in your health deteriorating.That is what your doctor has said as stress..

In other ways,there exists wavelength among people which will match/not match..Looking at the past,it looks like you PILs and your wavelength doesnt match...That is why there is so much of negativity in their presence..

 

I've somewhat same problem. Whenever MIL is about to visit us or I've to visit her, I get a severe case of nausea and dizziness. Throughout her/my stay, I vomit about twice a day. I don't know about negative energy, but I think what causes such problems is intense psychological fear/anxiety. Our mental stress is so great that this tension/fear creates havoc on our physical body. It has to vent out somehow. So the body does it through headaches (in your case) and nausea (in my case) :drowning

By the way, negative energy is something my MIL accuses me of having. According to her, my negative energy has brought her arthritis. She also says that since marrying me her son is facing career problems, FIL lost a contract and SIL is not being treated well by her family. All because of negative energy generated by me. :rotfl

 

Great! As if we emit some so-called invisible rays to give 'em arthritis! Wonderful :bowdown
Some people do drain our batteries. No matter how hard we try, they just suck the energy off from us. How about avoiding such people? Let's say when the MIL calls to say she is coming for a visit, say you've planned a trip outta station. And yeah! Act as if you feel sorry for it:thumbsupMight help!

 

might be if its for a evening visit, you can think positively that they will leave soon..how good ur life is when you are living alone and had to be with them only for few hours.. thank god for that... think this whenever negative thoughts come.. then see the change..

sometimes what is happening is important but how we see it is also equally important..

 

I wish I could shoot some extra powerful negative rays at my SIL;-);-. I am not particular about the disease she's to get, anything that keeps her away from me is fine!..

gosh! The kind of reasons these inlaws find to blame us is amazing!
Room potu yosipangalo? (Do they book a room specially to think of these ideas?) :bonk:bonk

 

shweta, its psychosomatic.

Even though me and my DH NEVER fight with each other because of ILs, their calls used to cause stomach cramps to me. Anytime I am tensed I used to get stomach cramps. So its definitely the way our body responds to tensions. Nothing fishy.

On an embarrassing note, these days when they call, instead of stomach cramps, I started getting stomach aches and immediately I have to poop. My DH thinks its funny.

 

It's stress and the tension of the visits. Try to emotionally detach from them. Whaever they do, try not to get affected by it..not easy but worth a try.

 

I hate it when my MIL bugs me and spoils my mood. So much is her negativity that I become so negative in my behavior to my DH also. When she is away, I am so happy, but when I hear that she is coming, I get stressed! The very idea of listening to her nonsense makes me stressed and I get stomach cramps and headache!

 

mg: Just like what I feel !!! I'm planning an India trip for this diwali, but the thought of having to stay with her dampens my eagerness as I feel nauseated .....