hi, i am married for 3yrs. i married my hubby with the blessing of both our parents. i did not realize till late that my in-laws are greedy. they want me to sign an empty stamp paper; and they nag me to get things from my dad.my hubby was a different person after marriage. he was not at all what he projected he was, before marriage. he does not care if i live or die. i am a homemaker. he thinks i am his servant. he comes home like paying guest. does not help me in any house matters. even if iam sick he does not care. he tells me without shame that his purpose in life is to make his relatives rich and comfortable. he hides his savings, and is very stringy when it comes to spending for me.but he spends any amount for himself and his family. he wants me to go for work and with that money take care of our expenses, so that he could live a gala life. even when i tell him to invest his money in buying a house, he does not agree.my in-laws always compare my sister with me and say to my face that she is a better match to my husband than me. and that i am ugly, fat, and not fair. I am not all these and i know they say this to hurt me. still i cant forgive my hubby because sometimes he calls me by my sisters name.when i confront him, he says it just came out of his mouth and that no harm is done. now he has left me because i quarreled with him quoting how his mom tortured me with words.he manhandled me and i hit him back. if i call him, he is not answering. pls suggest what i should do? he didn't even call me for his bro. wedding. my in-laws are showering praises on his bro. wife and told my parents that they should take me to a psychiatrist because there is something wrong with me. i feel frustrated because they are saying to everyone that iam a sick woman and that i throw things at my husband. nothing he did come out. they are shrewd. my dad does not want to go police because he has an unmarried girl at home. my in-laws say that they have only boys, no girl child. so every one should fall at their feet. my hubby has challenged that my dad will fall in my in-laws feet. pls suggest how to tackle this? i am at my parents home for more than 2 weeks. my hubby did not call. one mutual friend called to say that she has never seen my hubby laughing and having good time before. he and his family to so happy that there is so much noise in that house. here i am crying along with my family. is this fate? is there no god to render justice to a woman like me? i feel helpless. i took care of this man like a king. does it not have any effect on him. what should i do? i lost all my confidence and feel like a rotten vegetable -good for nothing. i am afraid to face my relatives. everyone is making fun of me because i married according to my wish. i called my hubby but he shouted at me and hung the phone. i feel miserable. all his relatives ridicule me and hate me because i brought my husband to live seperately from his parents. they are after him for his money and he does not realize it. his parents are very happy that he has left me. he stays somewhere outside, his parents are not bothered to cal him to their home. all they want is his money. so daily he visits them and they poison him against me. pls pray for me.