Hi all, I live in a development where it is mostly indians. i am planning a birthday party for my daughter and the issue is one kid in our street is not so friendly with my daughter and everytime she comes over or they play it is a fight and i try to avoid it. her mom also doesn't help but make the situation worse. i had few get together and invited them over too but hubby and kids were upset that i invited them. she has two kids and they make a mess, throwing stuff all over, breaking things, wasting food etc and the mom doesn't even take care of the kid. so my hubby and kids were behind them. i was busy heating food and serving etc. so now for the birthday party they dont want to invite this kid. other kids in the neighbourhood also dont like this kid but when we meet out all talk nicely. i feel confused whether to invite this kid or not. if i leave her out it is openly inviting trouble. this kids mom and kid both are too bossy. she is the type who would take advantage of other ppl, bad mouth about others etc. so i always keep it to minimum other than once in a yr potluck and birthday party. last yr we invited her for the birthday party and she took all the other kids cupcake toppers and i wasn't able to control this kid. how do u manage such situations/ppl?