Hi I'm a new member. regarding my problem.....from 2008-2010 jan i lived in singapore with my hubby and a son.we were very happy and contented since we both r engineers and had good jobs. i conceived my second son in jan 2009 and it was a premature delivery with lots of problems ( i was in the hospital before he was born for one month due to premature rupture of the membrane.....and one month later he was delivered due to infection in the waterlevel...he was in the incubator for one month...and nursery for another two more months...) so we had to spend a lot of money for the hospitals..... when my son was delivered i planned to come back to chennai (inspite of my hubby's denial). he is working there (often visits us here). He asks me to come back there again so that we can live there instead of us here and there..,,,,,but i am still afraid to think of what happened there. :hide: But anyhow we had already planned to start a new life there with the kids. i want to do all the poojas for a good start (unlike last time) there. we r planning to move next year 2012. i would like this second attempt to be a successful one for my family . So please help.:bowdown I had been very immune to hospitals and medicines since my childhood......but this all-of-a-sudden three months hospitalisation in another far off country (from our homeland without nobody to take care except my hubby) shocked me very much so that i want to be very cautious this time and pray GOD should always be with me.