Need help!!!

Hello everyone..I happened to contact my friend she said living at peace abroad but now she is so scared to come to a visit to India for vacation but unfortunately she can't skip it because her close cousin is getting married which is a must for her to attend due to their help for her in many ways to reach abroad. Please read my earlier post. She is so hard-hearted that don't feel like meeting her husband but need to see her kid atleast once during the visit. I don't know how to advise her. She is financially little okay managing for her living and trying to repay her loans. She was totally depressed once but she is clear in her talks. Should I say come India but stay away from him or forget about the past and get along with him for the sake of kid. Please advice me ladies..thanks