need help on convincing parents for intercaste marriage - urgent

varalakshmi24 · May 1, 2013

Hi ,

May I ask what is the status of your relationship now. Going through something similar thats y. Please ignore if you do not want to answer,

reader123 said: ↑

Dear all,

Hearty thanks to everyone who cares for me. I must not be a gounder or atleast from a city to take bold decision mine is a very small village, my parents are so emotional that they might end their lives (without blackmailing me now) if I go out and marry him. someone might understand my situation better knowing tat I belong to Kongu vellala gounder family. He is too good and worth of fighting for him. But he has good respect for my parents and so he says we'll part as it will cause hurt to only 2 persons but if we join, it will hurt 3 ppl (my parents and my brother, who is unmarried). I know very well abt my parents n brother, they wont talk to me forever if I go out of home. I'm not able to convince them - only reply is it may be suitable for any other caste/city ppl, but not for us. I can very well understand their position, so not angry on them. Before 2 yrs, me n him thought things ll change in 2 yrs, but its still the same We 2 are parting with so much pain
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Bla · May 18, 2018

reader123 said: ↑

Dear all,

Myself and a guy working with me are in love with each other for 2 years. We are well educated and got a decent job. I'm from a village in tamilnadu, whereas he is from a moderate town. Though we both are hindus, we are of different caste. My parents have a good status in my village n caste, so they are afraid of villagers and relatives speech and wants me to forget him n marry a guy of their choice or to marry my love and leave them forever. I'm not able to chose either of these since I love both my parents and the guy so much.

Being lived in the village till my school days, I know how hard it would be for my parents to face my villagers and caste ppl if they get to know about my love matter . But I sincerely love this guy, I cant imagine or keep anyone else in his place. It will be hell for me to do so. But leaving my parents is impossible bcoz they showered so much of love on me and did lot of sacrifices for my good status now. As a helpless 25 yr old girl, I'm praying lord siva to do some miracle in my life to make my villagers n parents understand me (though it may sound silly for somebody, it is the only way I can see now). Please advise/pray for me.

Sorry for the long post !!!

Thanks.
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Bla · May 18, 2018

hi,
May I know wat happened then in ur lyf.
Im facing the same situation pls. I ll be helpful for my lyf too

Bla · May 18, 2018

varalakshmi24 said: ↑

Hi ,

May I ask what is the status of your relationship now. Going through something similar thats y. Please ignore if you do not want to answer,
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Varalakshmi may i know wats ur situation now

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