Hello all, I generally have a positive attitude towards life. But from the past 3 months i feel everything is going downhill! I dont wish to be specific about each problem. But Whenever there is a situation to wait for a result, be it for greencard, promotion at office, increment , schools or health related check ups everything is giving us a dissapointment! Whenever one such thing happens i keep telling myself that its ok but the failures/dissapointments keep coming one after the other and making me loose my positive attitude. And to top it all, everybody else in the friends circle are getting the things which we have been strugling to get and expecting to happen , very easily. I had never before compared our life with others and was very clear in my thinking that each persons life and journey is different. But these consecutive dissapointments in the last 3 months have changed the way i think. How do u guys keep urself positive in such situations? And few of the failures were very painful because we were completely deserving and were very much hopeful to get it. So sometimes i feel may be god is telling us that we dont belong to the current place and have to change it. May be change job etc. I have started comparing with others life which i badly want to stop. I keep thinking why is this happening to me alone? I badly wish to be back to my positive self again. How do u stay positive when things you badly wish to happen doesnt end as expected? Need some help to stay positive!