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Need Advice On Male Organ Hurt After Making Love

Discussion in 'Intimacy' started by Rachna, Jul 11, 2015.

  1. Rachna

    Rachna Gold IL'ite

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    hi ladies,
    we are married 5 yrs back and have a lovely 2 yr old daughter. After baby, we have become very inactive say once a week for sex. We never faced any problem, but facing one issue these days. After intercourse, his penis tip (uppermost part) gets reddish with slight pain and he feels it little stretched during IC. It becomes normal in next 2-3 days.We are not using any contraceptive but ejaculating outside method(as we are fine to take little risk though we are not in ttc). Has someone been in such a situation? pls suggest.

    I would also like to know that whom to consult..gynecologist, urologist, physician?

    Pls help me
     
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    It is due to dryness in your vagina or some infection... Contact a doctor...
     
  3. jaden

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    I guess its best to consult a doctor for the problem,as the reason could be many.It could range from issues like an infection or something as simple as lack of lubrication during sex.Try using a lube next time you get intimate,might just work out.
     
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    use vaseline,coconut oil
     
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  6. Rachna

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    thanks, but is coconut oil/ vaseline safe to use for that purpose?
     
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    Y don't you consult a doctor for this problem.if u consult early u will get out of this problem early. As per my knowledge it may be infection.
    Don't use any thing with out Doctor's permission.
     
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    I too would recommend consulting a Urologist before trying anything. Why take a chance.
     
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    If it is due to dryness of the vagina you could use KY jelly.. But if it appears to be an infection you would need to visit an urologist..
     
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    last month only my husband returned from abroad,he didnt see any doctor there as he was not sexually active and bcoz of that he couldn't feel it.few days back we went to a urologist and showed himself. Urologist told that it was mild infection and over a period of time, muscle has shrinked. he prescribed antibiotics for safe side, but told that if it continues then he needs circumcision. Even now after antibiotics, he feels muscle stretched. Due to this, all sex life has gone for a toss. Dont know what to do. Has someone experienced similar situation, pls guide. Moreover, we are scared to hear the word circumcision.
     
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