Dear Friends, Thank you so much for your valuable reply. I got a proposal from a person, who is an electrical engineer running his own business. HE Send his photo on mail, he is bald head with a very average personality. He called me over phone who is a widower without any issues and explained about his life and enquired about my life. He told that he will be better life partner and a good father for my daughters. He told that he will speak to my parents and brothers with their permission he wants to marry me and will give a very good life. He is not compelling me in any way, he gave his address and phone no of his residence and office to enquire about him. I spoke to my parents they are asking me "what is the caste of that person?" ,I know he is a hindu but I didn't ask the caste. Do caste is very important? My parents are telling you've two daughters so the caste is very important. My elder brother is telling, whatever consequence comes after that (ie after marriage) you've to face it,we will not be responsible for any cause. My younger brother is telling you are going to spoil your daughters life, you be a widow and lead your life that is a good solution. My first life is a very tragedic life, i don't have any nice rememberance to lead my future. I am only just 36 years old. my elder daughter is in college hostel and she is in first year for the coming years also she wants to be in hostel. she said it is convenient for her after UG she want to go for PG and that also she said she will be in hostel, being with my younger daughter who is 7 year old. I feel very lonely and afraid. WHAT TO DO? PLEASE MY DEAR FRIENDS KINDLY HELP ME.