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Discussion in 'Friends & Neighbours' started by MonikaSG, Jan 20, 2018.

  1. MonikaSG

    MonikaSG Platinum IL'ite

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    I need a friend at all times in life
    He should know everything
    Why am I sad
    Why I am happy
    Why I feel low
    Why I feel proud
    Why few don't like me
    Why few do like me
    Why I am fat
    Why I can't control my taste buds
    Why I can't control my anger
    Why I can't decide every time what to cook
    Why there is feeling of being alone all the time
    Why I always look for someone to understand me
    Why god didn't came with me to answer everything the same moment
    Why I can't understand all of his answers
     
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  2. Thyagarajan

    Thyagarajan IL Hall of Fame

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    :hello:Thank you sister for letting me first to comment.
    Life for everyone is a mixture of hope which should give raise to dealing with varieties of emotion every living moment. Some emotions linger long while many fade quickly. There can be some moments where one could experience rare emotions.
    2. The only answer to many of the above “WHYs” could be none other than one’s MOM & to some extent it could DH, the latter being depend on understanding also known as equation.
    3. Some of these WHYs stand uppermost not only in minds of housewives but also dominates minds of DHs!
    4. If one cultivates “Cent % LISTENING” with open mind without being judgemental all time - it may lead to answers to many of above WHYs !
    Regards.
    God Bless Us All.
     
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    MonikaSG Platinum IL'ite

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    Thanks for replying... Yes you are right. These persons are very important. :)
     
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    Tamrakshar Platinum IL'ite

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    Monica, maybe there is someone in a distant corner of the world, who understands you. Maybe there is someone who follows you, who cares for you, who is happy when you are happy, he is sad when you are sad. Don't give up hope.
     
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    MonikaSG Platinum IL'ite

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    Too filmy but sounds good. Thanks...I was just trying to mention all the thoughts that run all time in our mind and for all of them we always need some answer. We can't ask everything every time to anyone. But just hope to have someone who can understand each of our emotion.
     
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    GeetaKashyap IL Hall of Fame

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    Dear @MonikaSG,

    Humans have their limitations and they cannot be consistent and always be giving, loving, caring, understanding etc. They have their own list of demands too. They say God couldn't be everywhere and so he made mothers. But in reality, even mothers have limitations. SO the best bet would be to have a pet dog (endlessly loving) and a super-intelligent robot (endlessly knowledgeable and competent; it can answer at least most of your queries and guide you.) You are most probably sorted then. What do you say?;)
     
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    So practical !
     
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    Naari Platinum IL'ite

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    Geeta, what about the emotions? Feeling misunderstood is the most common complaint of women (could be men too, I think it’s a gender neutral problem)
     
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    Monica
    I don’t have answer to any WHY’s. There comes a time in life when

    No matter
    I am happy or sad
    I am low or proud
    I am loved or hated
    I overeat or overindulge
    I am upset or angry
    I am alone or in company
    I learn to be contented
    With just myself
    I realize
    It’s all about the emotions
    Life chose to experience
    Through me
    That made me human
    At the end of the day
    I sleep with no guilt
     
  10. GeetaKashyap

    GeetaKashyap IL Hall of Fame

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    @Naari

    Dog is there to compensate all the love and understanding needs, as it understands your every little mood and loves you anyways, without judging.(Half the battle is won and heart is taken care of!) Robot takes care of mental pressure (the other half battle!) When you have a strong team on your side(Dog+ super robot+yourself), you don't need anyone else or you can take on anyone! What do you say?
     
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