Nearing delivery but no support from husband

Hi Dear,
congratulations on your new bundle of joy.

hope you remember me.. i replied to you once, as me too in exactly the same situation as u are. only difference being i aborted my second child seeing that he wont care for the baby. i myself cannot take it all alone to raise 2 kids. i decided that i will not have any kids in the future too. and i will raise my DD with my best effort, without expecting anything from my H.

you can also do like this. be calm, if your H is not disturbing you much, when you just let him go his ways, then i think you are not going to gain or loose anything from divorce. but make sure you are not available to him for anything. just stop expecting anything for you or your babies, start living your own life. one or the other day he might be helpful for your kids atleast.

but if you feel you can get some financial help from him, and you cannot manage without financial help from him, you have to look for other options like maintenance case.

i too suggest not to take the decision of divorce now. but at the same time, dont ever have in mind that he will help you at any point of time. you are responsible for u and your kids.

 

congratulations dear. a small suggestion, u had patience for 3 years. continue it for 1 more year and, if possible try some prayers like siddha mangala stotram (available in prayers and slokas), anagha vratam, or slokas for matrimonial hormony. and then take a decision since there is a very long way to go before ur kids get setteled. have patience till ur second child comes to 8th or 10th class. think ur hasband is ur 3rd child till then.