Hi Ladies, I was married 3 years ago and I am single parented child. My mom lived with me initially and due to inlaws problem she went to my native. My husband was not supportive to me and always used to tell me that he will divorce me whenever we have misunderstandings. Days rolled on and became mother for my first daughter. He is not nice to daughter too. he will not even take care about the kid even if she is sick. He didnt go to job either and I was managing household expenses and everything. Meanwhile I got pregnant again for the second kid and he wanted me to abort it. I didnt want to kill my own so i said no and going to deliver in this month. I took seperate home for mom to take care of my kid since my MIL is not ready to do that. Now I am struggling to manage the family physically and financially. He was not even helping in anything. I am verymuch frustrated now with his behaviour and want to divorce him. But everyone is telling me to wait for some years. I have gone through physical abuse, verbal abuse and everything in this marriage. I hope 3 years is not short time for giving him time to change. So after my delivery am planning to initiate divorce. I dont want to live with non supportive, non loving husband. Ladies please advice..