Narcissist Person ' Wife

She must have ignored you.
So you can't see her posts.

 

if you click on ignore of a member page. Both can't see each other's posts

 

Many women have done the same mistake. You are not alone.
I too live in this kind of marriage. Always tried to please an emotionally unavailable person.
The options are
1 separate. It gets difficult at our ages.
2 Emotionally disconnect from him. Just treat him as a room mate.
3 Make your own friends. Meet, travel with them to feel better.
No easy solutions.
Some take up yoga, meditation. It helps

 

Thank you for enlightening.

I never wished to ignore any member by clicking away on their page (profile). In case by mistake I had done it, how do I remedy or reverse it?

The discussions are interesting and socially most relevant. Hence I visit this thread and read with avid interest FBs from fellow members which gives away what must hv been said by the OP.
GOD HELP HER TO WRIGGLE OUT OF THIS TANGLE.

 

Thyagarajan sir was saying he is not able to read your posts or comments. So was explaining to him

 

Go back and click unignore

 

One of classical symptoms of narcissitic abuse is rumination. means - you are thinking all the time about how did you get to the place you are. doubting your own sanity. questioning and researching on how to fix it. watching videos or feeling that talking to people lot. if you are in this spot, then yes your spouse is like that.

and please note there is nothing you can do will fix him.

like @@ddream said you need to follow.

try to journal what you will do if he was not in your life. not for a day. journal plan for the whole month. then act on it.
i am assuming your children are grown up and moved out. are you working, or financially independent.
experiment, what is the worst can happen if you move out of home for a week near work.
what is the worst can happen, if you live together but cook / clean for yourself only. and go and lock your room like a roommates live.

see the people who go thru the abuse, isolation either physically or mentally if not done, you will not get peace. you cannot act like a wife and then complain about the situation also.