Naari Express-Ticketless ride for IndusLadies!!

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  1. spuppala

    spuppala Gold IL'ite

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    Woman-The only living being I can substitute for Multitasking!Yes no more a exaggeration!She is the diva..She is the cute baby..She is the intelligent school girl..She is the college beauty...She is the college topper...She is the lovely sister..She is the caring friend..She is the sensible daughter..She is the damn understanding wife..She is the wonderful chef..She is the programmer..She is the boss..She is the decision maker..She is the home maker..She is the adorable grandmother...She is the engineer..She is the romantic love...She is the doctor..She is the life-saver..She is the architect..She is the driver..She is everything and everywhere..What not!SHE is my inspiration!

    Women of India-You are most welcome and congratulations to all of you for being a woman...Right from a home maker to a bus conductor there are working women in every field and in every walk of life.. All they do is work, work and work...get p early..cook breakfast..one for DH and one for the kids..cook pasta for kids and cook rice for husband and cook soup for in-laws..and finally she would not have anything into her stomach..If luck favours she would sip a coffee that has become extremely cold and rush to the work place..And if you are travelling in a share auto or a bus..then the problem doubles..People staring at you and idiots trying to touch your sensual parts..And finally you reach your office exactly 14 minutes late!!If it is the software field there might not be much nonsense..But if it any other one..then you should imagine the 'torture' to enter into the boss room to put your signature..I know that you would feel like to quit the job that moment and again remember those family problems and cool down..and eventually head to your seat with a cool smile on your face.. Loads and loads of work await you and even then you will not lose your cool..And sometimes your sleepy mood coz of tiredness won't allow you to have your lunch or sometimes you would really forget the lunch box on your dining table itself!And when the clock ticks 7 you realise that you are overdone and start to get out of the office..and again here by not falling in the eye of your boss!

    On the way back to home you would really forget to buy the pizza base to prep a non-veg pizza that your kid was asking from ages ago..!!With a sick face and ofcourse body too..you would reach home to only see the war b/w kids and in-laws for their TV channels..Whom to convince and whom to ask to adjust..Tough job..Tough times..Ahhh...your DH enters the scene and ask innocently.."Why didn't you polish my shoe today..my boss had commented me in front of the team"..Thats it the pinch of energy that is remained also vanishes and there you feel like in hell..Despite of your mood..you would go and prepare dinner and again varieties one for kids..one for in-laws..one for DH..and none for yourself!!It would be midnight by the time you enter into your bedroom and there you see your DH sleeping with a relaxed face ..Even that time where you don't have a pinch of energy to stand..you would sit behind him and press his legs with a lovely feeling in your eyes..And sometimes you even feel like sex as a punishment in times of extreme tiredness..Eventually that may lead to differences and arguments and finally..The next day starts as usual!!

    She has to almost always shoulder the burden of household chores as well. she will not have control over the money she earns. But in most families even now her salary is handed over to husband or in-laws.Not that she shouldn't but problem lies when her wishes are ignored..and when simply when she is not happy..There could be few times where the companies may not give sufficient maternity leaves and so she had to leave her baby to someone..So many problems..so many hiccups..so many joys..so many sorrows..She is capable of doing everything...She can lead a country..but God only k ow show many problems she is facing before going to sleep every night..:spin

    Common ladies..Cheer up..Now that you are in this Express..all your problems will get vanished..Pop up your question and have a answer in your pocket..We shall plan everything and execute together..We shall deeply think and bring a solution to any problem you are facing..Don't worry we all are together here to make you smile..to make you cheerful..to make you strong..and to make you ALIVE!!:yes:

    Whatever the problem could be or whatever your experience or opinion could be.. serious or silly..just tell here..we shall solve it you would sure have a solution..Team work always wins!:thumbsup

    Be it you are single or married with kids..No more skipping meals..no more harassments.. no more sleepless nights..All of us are with you to solve your problems Speak out..:)
     
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    To start with I shall share some tips ;

    It is damn important that you communicate with your DH about sharing household chores. This should not be a difficult process as your income also helps to manage the family and your husband must be a team player. A high priority should be the area of the children’s well-being and study supervision.Communication is the key!Tell him softly how much you love him and family..Am sure he would sure lend his hand to you!

    If your job requires much interaction with male colleagues after working hours, it is always good to tell this to your husband in advance so that he won't misunderstand you.Explain him softly about your work and he would take care of explaining this to in-laws if required. You can easily send an SMS to him to inform your whereabouts and he can arrange to fetch you home.

    These are really very small tips or solution to some of your problems..Lets interact and discuss more my dear ladies..
     
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    u have dropped out the ladies facing the problem in day today life... working women suffering like hell but the final she gets bad name only..nobody is there to appreciate her and support her...everybody in the family will carry on their own life..but being a women she needs to manage all the hurdles .... kudoos for all ladies...:cheers:cheers:cheers

    still women exists for polishing husband's shoe and pressing husabnds leg daily???:bonk:bonk
    just kidding:)
     
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    Thanks Subha for dropping by.. :)
    I did not understand your first point..Did i drop some points or what?

    He he he he..i know you wonder reading this..Yes there is one friend of my mom who works as a Hindi Pandit in Government school..My aunt should only wash my uncle's dress(he neither likes a maid to do it nor get them machine washed..Really dont know the intention:bonk,Also he never cares to iron his clothes but when given outside he says not to waste money and only my aunt has to do.Then there is no wonder that she does the boot polish too for him!!)

    he he ..about leg press it is each and every women's lovely heart that doesn't allow them to sleep unless they caress their husbands despite of their hectic schedule..my mom is a good example for that..but vice versa is rare :)Forget about the new generation in this aspect but certainly there are ladies who does these stuff to husbands..
     
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    Excellent Write up. U have poured out what every working women is facing.
    I have a question. Many husbands want their wife to work and earn to help them financially, but they(husband) is not ready to share the household chores to help his wife?
     
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    Hi Deeparani2,

    Thank you dear..glad that you liked it..
    Yes i agree to your point..most of the husbands fall in the couch category when it comes to helping at home..But what we need to understand is there are different bands in which husbands fall..

    Some willing to help but need more notes from us..
    Some want to help but have very specific tasks that they will or won’t do
    Some really don't keep in mind whatever we tell and need sticky notes to remind and wake them up to do :)
    Few may need “kick in the pants” to get off the couch..as they always stick to it holding a remote..
    The ones who think they shouldn’t have to help at all are really dangerous and tough to tackle..:rotfl That time you hire someone to help you and explain the need of her and your difficulties in managing the things alone..Probably that time he may think to some extent regarding extra expenses for the maid and ofcourse your situation too:)

    We need to understand into which band our DH falls and try to improve the situation..We should not stop our trials at any time making DH to involve in the household chores..:thumbsup

    Most importantly when he does the simplest things..don't ever criticize him..he will slowly improve..:)
     
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    hi spuppala

    very nice way of writing , what ever you written that is 100% true but i am very lucky till now after my marriage my husband keeping me in his palms very nice way lets see after getting kids i don't know. how we can manage financial issues in the family very well way!! because in my family my dh is the only earning person he want to take care of his parents family maintenance and our family in uk but each and every month always going like deficit budget but he never get tired of this but im feeling very bad about how we can manage in this please help me!!!
     
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    i pressed my dh legs sometimes when he needs , he also does that to me... but everything out of love not of compulsion..:)
    when this male domination gonna end???..
     
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    Hi Sujisaran,

    Thanks a lot..
    I do understand your problem but you see this thread is meant for discussing about working women..so kindly put your question in the appropriate forum and sure you would get some help..Hope you understand..

    Wish you all the best ..
     
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