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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by SaleemaRex, Jan 11, 2013.

  1. blessbabydust

    blessbabydust IL Hall of Fame

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    there is no mystery maintained between couples .During my post operative sessions my husband volunteered and did change pads,bedpans and shower me not any midwives or nurses . I will once held my husbands puking in hand and felt proud that after that day "he said you are my mother i always respect you for always ".until today he treats and respect me as his mother :)

    I did the same to my grandma i respect the privacy but you shouldnt feel gross about other bodily things .

    Couple shd take care of each other without any mystery else old age will become very mystery and alone .

    love the thread thanks for starting it :)
     
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    I agree with you, blessbabydust.. When I had my back issues and on bed rest, hubby bathed me and dealt with my bedpans too.. And when I got my string of food poisoning cases when I first came to live in India, and was having dizzy spells, he would watch over me whenever I went to the bathroom.. And hours after my minor surgery in my nose, I went to the bathroom and ended up fainting.. but he was there holding my hand the whole time anyway, so I wasn't hurt....

    Anyway, now I don't really bother if the doors are open or closed when I go to the bathroom.. But yes, when I shower I close the door only because I don't want to spoil the door... :-D

    Hubby does get shy at times, but if he went through all that I did, he wouldn't be.. I usually stand around at the door and talk to him while he's trying to get some business done and he's like "I'm trying to use the bathroom!!" then I would tease him and irritate him until he literally locks me out and even then I'd be annoying him by knocking and talking through the door.. :biggrin2:
     
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    Maggie,

    Have you ever thought about making a Youtube video ? You can compete with Gangnam Style :cheers
     
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    Wait till you get married your views might change :)
     
  5. blessbabydust

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    you are so nottie minara :)
     
  6. SaleemaRex

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    Exactly :yes:
     
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  7. SaleemaRex

    SaleemaRex Gold IL'ite

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    It's nice to hear from someone who is not married yet! Adds another perspective to it!

    Thanks for sharing your views :thumbsup
     
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    :rotfl :rotfl :rotfl
     
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    Thanks for sharing your experience. Both you and your husband seems to be really caring people. It's inspiring to read about the way your husband cared for you and you helping your grandma.

    :iagree
     
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    Thanks for sharing your experience and views :cool2:
     

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