I am just venting out my irritation. My brother-in-law and his wife with their 3 yr old kid is now with us for (their) vacation which I don't know is how long. My baby is just 17 months old and now feeling uncomfortable with them. Their kid is really bad in behaviour screaming and crying loudly all the time for everything. When denied of something she hits and pulls hairs of her parents or whoever she's angry with. My baby is calm by nature but she cant play since as soon as she picks up something the other kid comes running and snatches from her hands. This happens even when my baby eats biscuits. My bil shouts at his daughter and after 5 minutes things are back to square. Even my maid is irritated with them since my co-sis is a lazy fat goose who cooks but leaves everything as it is in the kitchen. My maid has to take care of my baby and protect her from the other kid since she pushes my child from behind when she walks. Moreover bil n his wife are very careless in keeping the doors open so we have to always watch our baby for her safety.I and my husband are working and we will be out of the house throughout the day. Thankfully my maid is good. but I dont know when she'll get fed up and ask me to send her back. My bil didn't do any work after his education though he's a graduate since he doesnt like working under anyone. For sometime he was doing some contract work then now dependent completely on my FIL's pension. MY co-sis is also not working but remains tired all the time. She sleeps more than anyone can. from 10pm to 8am then again from 2pm to 6pm approximately. Still she is tired. I come back from office and do cooking with my maids help but my co-sis sits comfortably with her kid and plays with her. I dont mind doing the cooking what irritates me is that she complains after this that she's tired playing with her daughter. I am a early bird who gets up at 5.30am and do some music practice and then get ready for office.leaves home at 9am Comes back by 7pm and then do cooking for 5 people still not as tired as she is! She's 2 yrs younger than me just hitting 30yrs and very fat. I took her to my neighbour's house since she is also from co-sis's place. She didn't touch the snacks they offered saying she doesnt have the mood to have. After 5 minutes she told she's leaving and left with her little monster when my husband and I were still sitting at neighbour's place. My neighbour and her husband asked whther she didn't like them! I wish they leave as early as possible so that atleast my baby gets a peaceful atmosphere at home. She cant even sleep due to the noise and disturbance from their baby.