Hi I hv joined this site this month only. The issues disscussed here and the solutions provided by others are really of great help. I also hv a li'l problem that is my MIL. I got married bfor 2 and a half yrs(arrange). My hubby loves me a lot & takes care of every li'l thing for me. We stay far from my IL's cos of my hubby's job. From the beginning he calls his family almost daily but my MIL always blames me for coming in-between their mother-son relationship, sometimes I get irritated and hv fight with my hubby over this issue but don't care too much for them & settle down the issue within a hour or two. Whenever I go to their place I just do my duties quietly and She talks to mein soft but taunting tone. In these years, she has used all the ill words she could use against me to convince my hubby that he should not trust me like I hv bad character, hv done some jaadu over him, is trying to divide him from his younger brothers and many other things. My BIL’s don’t even talk to me & my MIL told my hubby that I stopped talking to all of them. I tried to improve everything in starting but now I just remain quiet & wait for the good time to come Now, I m pregnant & my husband wants that we should call his mother to take care of me post-delivery as we don't hv anyone else to rely on in this time but I m sure that if I'll allow her to come to my place she is definitely going to spoil my married life.I don’t want her around me at such a precious moment of my life. I don't know wat to do. Plz suggest smthng.