My neighbour reading all my posts in IL and double checking with me

charu2k · Mar 20, 2012

Hi All,
I am new to IL. So far I have posted 4 or 5 posts only. I am a home maker and I really find this site helpful in many ways. This site has made me feel encouraged ,engaged,motivated,supported and answered my questions. I really need to socialize with everyone through this site and share more.But my problem is my neighbour reads all my posts as a guest ,with my name as filter and she came and cross checked with me whether all those were my posts. She asked me like"Oh is that u who asked these questions?" "Oh is that u who introduced urself in that forum?" My hubby found ur posts in that forum and we were reading ur posts" like that.Now i feel little embrassed to discuss/share anything in this forum because i feel there is some one watching me always. What can i do?

writeme · Mar 20, 2012

You create a new id with an anonymous name and do not add your particular details in your profile. Also request IL admin if she can delete your current account, quoting your reasons. Its embarrassing to know someone is constantly watching our posts and cross-checking.

godsgrace · Mar 20, 2012

Change your username and city/country..thats it! and don't mention the change to your neighbor.

charu2k · Mar 20, 2012

thanks for quick responses. Can i edit my profile to new name?

mansimahi · Mar 20, 2012

In all probability she would have read this post of yours too and would have got the message. However you can still create a different IL account with a gender/name unspecific id. I dont think you can change your existing id...but u can request the moderators to delete this account... citing your valid reasons.

indianinbayarea · Mar 20, 2012

charu2k said: ↑

Hi All,
I am new to IL. So far I have posted 4 or 5 posts only. I am a home maker and I really find this site helpful in many ways. This site has made me feel encouraged ,engaged,motivated,supported and answered my questions. I really need to socialize with everyone through this site and share more.But my problem is my neighbour reads all my posts as a guest ,with my name as filter and she came and cross checked with me whether all those were my posts. She asked me like"Oh is that u who asked these questions?" "Oh is that u who introduced urself in that forum?" My hubby found ur posts in that forum and we were reading ur posts" like that.Now i feel little embrassed to discuss/share anything in this forum because i feel there is some one watching me always. What can i do?
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Ofcourse if she comes home, keep your laptop/computer locked. She might check if you are logged in on IL.

puni88 · Mar 20, 2012

charu2k said: ↑

thanks for quick responses. Can i edit my profile to new name?
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You can't edit your profile with new user....
Instead you create a new id and keep it unanimous.

charu2k · Mar 20, 2012

can anyone pls let me know how can i delete my current account.How can i contact ILAdmin?

writeme · Mar 20, 2012

You cannot delete your username, send an email to induslady@indusladies.com, quoting your reasons. Meanwhile, create another username with which your neighbor cannot identify you!