Hi Sunshine, you are absolutely right. I have given in for their jealousy and insecurity. Problem is my H has given in too. Anything we do cannot be seen by pils. We never had a fight till our marriage, but since then, never had a peaceful day. H and I, both hate to hurt people. They cannot even see if we sit together, mostly MIL. I have stopped everything. Now it's really hard for me to be normal as this all took so much toll on me that, I had told my H, I wanted to be away from him forever. Cold days have creeped up now for few months. I got pregnant and was sent to my house. On the name of rituals, pils made my parents life miserable. I got really upset and talked about separation to my H. I had a baby but H was not allowed to spend one single day with me alone. Like visitors they would come with H, play with baby and leave. Anyways, short story, now we live together with pils but separated. We have given up. Its decided that if we want to be happy pils will be sad so why take that karma on us? We will be sad, let's see if they are at least then.