My last wish

Hi Viji
Why the sudden gloom ? Death will come when it has to, why think of it when we are still alive :mrgreen: !

Just this morning I was reading in Times Of India a nice coloumn about death. I liked two lines in it very much :

1. Death is part of the renewal process of the Universe, so there's no need to dread it"

2. " We are not Human Beings having spiritual experiences, we are Spiritual Beings having a Human Experience "

I have seen older people often discussing plans for their final exit and making arrangements for their survivors . Women especially want to die as suhagans but also worry about who will care for the husbands after they are gone. Providence that brought a life to earth would also have made all necessary plans for the twilight years too, isn't it ?
Once, an upanyasak said "Nothing is permanent and nobody is indispensable". I have realised how true that is, even if it sounds blunt or rude. Nothing is in our hands, except maybe life insurance policies. So better not to dwell on what would be, but concentrate on what is and live every minute in joy and gratitude.

Looking forward to years of lovely snippets and blogs from you, Viji !:thumbsup

 

Dear Vijima,

So you are thinking about setting off for the eternal journey aah??? I wanted to let you know only one thing which my GGGrandpa told me about death. it goes like this

We are all in the orbit of life.
we will join the gravity one day
just the change in the orbit's path.

Few stars are seen with naked eyes like you
Few stars need telescope to be viewed (like us)
but believe we are all SUPER STARS ...

So Vijima when there is a make shift in the path please believe that we are all following next to you ....
But onething you can do ... make a straight application to God to make a special line for ILs ... atleast then we can all chat in person. What do you think?

Are you afraid of inviting all ILs for the 80th Bday? we dont need personal invite ma just post it in IL we will attend. ok!


Vijima its easy to say but very difficult to do but remember believing is vital.

 

Hi Viji Mama!

Why this thread from a bubbly aunty.

Birth and death are not in our hands and both have to be accepted on their arrival.
Birth can be expected with joy and anxiety while there is no reason to expect death. It will come as per turn and as per HIS WISH. Death is rarely expected only when some one is ailing for ages.

So please stop even the mere thought of it. Expect and await the Sadhabishekam Celebrations with Mama and ur dear kith and kin.

And last but not the least, don't forget the Villin Mahimai - Nats has very aptly thrown light on that issue to those who are not aware and reminded about it to those who are aware.

No excuses saying children are not money minded but want only love and affection. Let them not be money minded but let them not be given the burden of sorting out will related issues later on. Neruppu endru solavathaal vaai sudaathu. OK?

I am much junior to u. Hope u take this in the right spirit and don't think otherwise of me.

Enjoy ur days and spread the joy to us through cyberspace.

Bi.

 

Dear Vijima
Why such a thought?
May u live a long happy and healthy life.

 

Dear Viji Madam,
Why all of a sudden this kind of a thread from you??? really suprising. :-o:-o
Nothing is in our hand everything is HIS wish. I pray for you and your husband long life. Waiting for the 80th birthday invitation
Meenakshi