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My friend is like a caged bird help her

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by sanabijay, Mar 9, 2010.

  1. asuitablegirl

    asuitablegirl Gold IL'ite

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    BeeAmma, how are they wild assumptions?

    -she's not allowed to get a job
    -she's not allowed to buy anything for herself
    -he doesn't buy anything for her
    -he only values his parents opinion
    -even after 10 years she has no say in the finances of HER OWN HOME
    -she is in a "great depression"
    -he lets his family talk smack about her for the 75% of the year they were staying in HER home
    -she has to beg for money from outsiders just to take with her on vacation
    -husband complains about her but doesn't let her take the steps necessary for her to shut up his complaints

    Those aren't my "assumptions", that's all written right there in the first post by the OP.
     
  2. BeeAmma

    BeeAmma Silver IL'ite

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    No point squabbling since neither the OP not the subject are participating:).
     
  3. sanabijay

    sanabijay New IL'ite

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    Sorry friends as i was out of station i couldnt reply to you all.Happy to see all your replies.I spoke to her.She is not ready to get divorced thinking of her children.Her family is an orthodox one its not possible.now going for a job he will not allow.Is there any other way to make him happy and to change his nature?

    sana
     
  4. Spiderman1

    Spiderman1 Gold IL'ite

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    I think she definitely needs to go for a job. Otherwise it is tough.
     

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