My differences with my parents keeps getting bigger ?

I'm 27(m) just 4 months for marriage. Talking to my fiance once every two days.
What makes my life becoming more and more distress is that the frequency of quarrel between my me and my parents is getting worse.

I want to share everything with my parents just like i was a kid. But you see they never took me serious if i say "i don't like doing that way, do it in my way"
and the way i want to do really works most of the times.

The problem is that they don't really like when i correct them whenever they are wrong.
I can feel that its generation gap. I simply cannot control myself in correcting them.
Here is how my mom reacts whenever i try to make a correction in whatever we are doing or saying or trying to do.

She becomes silent, she starts to behave like a toddler and restrain from every possible tasks i want to continue doing with her.
There the problem starts, i start to question her

"why mom why are you so silent?"
she replies or sometimes never replies at all, which increases my anger
"Nothing, tell me what i want to do"

i say
"tell me why you are silent"
she says
"I'm normal "

and this carry on till we have a heated argument.
This is almost the same for all the conflicts we had so far.

When the conflict gets high time,
she cries
she worries that im not respecting her
she talks louder which makes me mad as our neighbors will hear our misunderstanding

finally the fight settles down on itself.

so that is how it happens with my mom

my dad is different as he do not use silent , but he talks vaguely which makes me even more arrogant.

Faults from myside:
I stand on my point and most of times its the fact. That is how things will work.

Please suggest any remedy or change in my habit to make myself less arrogant

 

Thank you periamma, i do understand that. I think i should learn to tolerate and wait out their wave of advice.
I will surely be silent here after.
If there are any good method to keep silent please suggest. Im going to buy a ruthraakcha maala and start counting it whenever theres a conflict.