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my childhood is a curse

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by Pavithra55, May 21, 2010.

  1. Pavithra55

    Pavithra55 Gold IL'ite

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    hmm where do i start. since this is my first write up please bear me.
    well ill start the story.

    i have heard people saying childhood is the best in our entire life time. born to a irresponsible dad and a loving, caring, mother a gal baby had a smile on her face looking at her mom and her innocent elder sister. everything was fine untill the mother carried her little baby in womb, i mean to say the second baby. that is none other than myself.

    dad left on his way when was 3 months in ma mom's womb. when i was born he came to see me only after 3 months of my birth. my mom being the eldest daughter in law had to face all the trouble given by her mil. later at a point of time she could not bear the torture left for her mom's place along with me and my sister. finds a job for herself and got settled in her mother's place along with us. life was normal without any problem. but later when i was matured enough i started missing my dad not because of any monetary gains. i used to lack the love given by my dad. i have not experienced any kind of love shown by a dad. i dont know how it is. am pampered and loved by my grandparents and my uncle.

    earlier at night i used to cry hiding myself thinking why am i not being cared by my dad. what mistake have i done to him, i used to cry repeatedly without knowing to anybody during my school days. i was the topper and get many prizes, in my school during parents teachers meeting my grand dad only used to come, i used to see others with their parents. i used to cry cry cry but later when i was 18 years i started to think why should i cry for the love of my dad when am getting in abundance from my mom side relatives.

    now am so happy with my grandparents and my mother takes care of me well but at times even she treats me like my dad only. but i dont take in to my heart. all i do and i wish to serve my grandparents till my last breath.

    many tell that childhood is the best part, but in my life i just pray to god that nothing i should remember about the days i wept wept wept without any break. its registered in my heart. but now am trying to forget about the problems that had faced by just praying to god and indulging myself in many activities.

    thankyou all for halting and reading my story, :)
     
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  2. Prettina

    Prettina Gold IL'ite

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    Hi pavithra,

    Im happy that your childhood has passed by..And pavi you know there are many kids who have suffered more than you..

    Not all kid's childhood is the best...

    Even childrens who have both parents who are loving also have tough times in childhood..lack of understanding.lack of love,partial towards boy,lack of time to spent with child is the major issue..

    In your case your dad was not with you so you longed for love its inevitable,many long for love being with dad....It all one's destiny...
     
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  3. Pavithra55

    Pavithra55 Gold IL'ite

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    hi Prettina
    thanx for your first warm reply. i used worry much but now have left it god. i have not penned more but your reply is indeed a boost to me. thanx
     
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  4. plakshmi

    plakshmi Gold IL'ite

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    hi pavi

    stop worrying first. tell thanks to lord that he has given u good mom , loving grand parents etc. we wont get whatever we want in life. some have good childhood days but not married life. its all part and parcel of the life. always be a good soul. I pray god you must get all success in your career life and married life.
    By the way my sis name is also pavithra only. we are blessed with good parents . but her husband is stingy and money minded. iam just cajoling her and giving all good examples to stay happy.
    thatis life yaar. take it easy and be happy.

    lakshmi
    Be honest to your consicousness.
     
  5. Pavithra55

    Pavithra55 Gold IL'ite

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    hi lakshmi
    thanx for your nice wishes.
     
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    Hi pavi!

    really that was so sad to hear of your childhood memories which made you to cry often!
    but of course that is a childhood and its a normal for all kids to long for a father's love! that too especially girls!
    but its unnecessary to cry for such an irresponsible father( sorry to tell this)
    you are really gifted to have such lovely mother and her relatives!
    often when a girl leaves a husband and returns home her parents will not be much supportive they just try ignoring her and try to sent her back! in that way you all are having a wonderful relatives i hope!
    you should be proud of your mother! she has brought you up after such a battle in life!
    even though she has her own sorrows within she haven't disappointed in bringing up you both! till end keep her happy!
    that's what the real tribute you can do for a mother like your mother!really hats off to her!:hatsoff:hatsoff
     
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  7. Pavithra55

    Pavithra55 Gold IL'ite

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    hi yams.
    i do agree with you. my mom is struggled too much in bringing up but without my grandparents support we woudn have been a good educated gals by now. thanx for your encouraging words.
     
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    Dear Pavi,

    Very sorry to note about your childhood. I completely agree with Yams. My standing ovation to your mother for bringing up yourself & sister. Agreed without the help of your relatives it would not have been possible.

    Forget it Pavi...get going in life. I would always suggest to enrich your qualifications and get into a good job so that you can be indpendant and stand on your own leg and take care of your mom...You need to give all the support to her and be like a rock of Gibraldor.
     
  9. Prettina

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    Hi pavi

    I could understand from your words that how much pain you have gone through that cannot be penned down here..
    But I always heard that people who has struggled in childhood will have the best life afterwards..May God grant all your wishes..
     
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    Dear Pavithra

    Sorry to hear about your childhood. But dont feel it is a curse. God has sent everyone with a purpose. so live your life to the fullest. You have good grandparents and your mother has brought you up so nicely and given good education. I also agree with Prettina that though your childhood was not so good , your future will be very good and you will get a good husband and have a good married life. My blessings for that.
    Forget about the past and be happy for what you are getting today. All the best for a happy future.

    love
    viji
     

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