The fatigue of relocation is still lingering and the incident that took place just after stepping in this new house was far more depressing and is still haunting me. Relocation is a hectic task and unfortunately we decided to move in the middle of the week. Myself and DH got a Uhaul truck around 6 pm and along with two helpers started loading our stuff in the truck. The new house that we leased was almost 30 miles away from the current location so by the time we loaded, traveled, unloaded our things in the new home, the clock struck 11:30 pm. My husband had to go to work next morning so we both decided to order pizza to have a quick bite before arranging tonight sleep stuff & basic things for the next morning. At midnight , the delivery boy arrived. We both were way tired & too hungry, so we quickly sat on the floor and grabbed the pizza. Knock Knock...we both stared at each other wondering who's on the door now...may be the pizza guy missed on something. My hubby got the door and we saw that our neighbour had come to see us. We welcomed her inside and told her that we have moved in just now. She said hello and first thing she stated was : "I am so happy that you guys moved tonight, My husband is away on the night shift for another two days and I need someone to help me and my kid at home". She asked me to finish my dinner and come over to her place to sleep with her and be with her till her husband is back from work in the morning. I was taken aback. I had casually met her twice when we came to enquire for this place. I could not reply her and she smiled and left reminding me to come over soon coz its already midnite. I was completely confused & slightly irritated. I looked at my hubby & he gave me a blank look and said 'Do what you wish! go and help her and I shall do the basic setup for today and tomorrow' but I was not sure if this is the right time to help others when my own things are not in place. Firstly I do not know her very well so I was not comfortable in sleeping at her place, moreover We have just moved in, we are new to this place ,my husband had to go for work next day so I wanted to organize my stuff first. I expected our neighbours to help us when we move-in instead of asking for help. There was no urgent situation at her end where she needed a prompt action from us. Her being home alone did not sound a valid reason to me for giving up everything at my place and helping her. I feel helping others is a good gesture but not at the cost of our discomfort...so I told my husband that I am not going to her place tonight, I shall apologize her and if required I will help her tomorrow. Next morning I met her and apologized giving her the genuine reason of our recent move but she is upset & since then keeps pointing n blaming me for being inconsiderate that night! I feel so bad now but that night I was being asked for a very sudden neighbourhood gesture that I could not comply with. Am I a disobliging neighbour?