Moving to Connecticut In December (Could not find a thread dedicated to Connecticut)

Hi Ladies,
First, I am a great fan of this site. I believe that this site is like a bible of sorts to many. I appreciate all the advice and suggestions given in this site.

Second, My question.
We moved to NJ in March 2013 from Maine. It was a huge change after living in maine for 6 years. NJ somehow seems very busy(I m a housewife with a 3 and half year old). I had a great time in Maine and not so great time in NJ.

My husband has a project in CIGNA ,(works for CTS,) Bloomsfield CT, hence this move again.
Can anyone suggests apartments, pre schools, especially where there are lot of Indians. I am craving for those regular get togethers, Pongal parties(I am a Tamilian. ), new year parties, ugadi etc.

All suggestions are greatly appreciated. Hoping for speedy responses.

Thanks in advance.

Bindu