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Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by messedup, Jul 19, 2021.

  1. messedup

    messedup Platinum IL'ite

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    I was a pampered child. Never thought before that I could care for someone else. All the focus of my parents were on me. My mom always used to cook the meal of my choice. My dad always wanted to give me everything that I ever asked for. My brother always used to treat me as younger sister. I was always the center of care and love. GB

    After marriage I was not that important in my new family. I was not very happy with them as everyone was different than me and there were so many people to deal with.

    Then came the day when I tested positive. Yes, I conceived my first child. Leaving behind other sad stories I became mother to two kids in two years. Earlier it was tough but with time as they are growing up we 3 are connecting to each other a lot. No need to tell about my love for them.
    About their love they love me without any questions. They want me everytime. They want to - play with me, sleep with me, talk to me, to give hugs and lots of kiss to me. All the love without any judgement.

    I am their mom and that's enough for them. Nothing more they want. They feel safe with me. And I feel complete with them. No other relationship can me more close than this. I always pray for their well being and want them to live a long and complete life.
     
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    Thanks to everyone for the likes and very sorry for typo mistakes.. . :blush:
     
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    Dear @messedup
    A beautiful simple essay eulogising motherhood the undertone of which is that presence of loving kids would amply and adequately compensate for absence of love from other quarters.
    I see vast improvement in your writing skills and demonstrate able handling of joint family issues.
    A vent once in a while is OK to have that feel-good as you did recently.
    The central idea of toddlers arrival and deft handling of issues reminds me Tamil savant Thiruvalluvar sayings in his ten couplets.
    What is GB means here?

    This style reminds me of Tamil super star Rajini & Amithab Bachchan.
    “I talk English I walk English



    Wish your family members & kids all the best.
     
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    Unplayable video on this site - click on the the play arrow that would automatically go to u tube and play.
     
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    Thanks for your reply sir... GB is typo...

    The video of Rajinikanth is interesting. I never watched that scene earlier. 

    For handling the issues it comes with time and still there is lot to do. It's still difficult to accept everyone and get accepted. But we all know the importance of togetherness so struggling each day to survive with each other.

    If you can see some positive improvement then it must be there. You and your life stories inspired me a lot more than anything else. I can't express it in words.

    Thanks for being here. :blush::blush:
     
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    Congrats on being a Mother. The most important thing in a Male's life is his mother's love. It makes him or Breaks him.

    Regards,
    Athura
     
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    Thanks for your like and the reply....

    But may I ask why did you separated the kids with their gender? Mother-daughter relationship is also strong enough.
     
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    Because I answered from my perspective. Being a son to my mother, I know the difference that a mother's love makes in a son's upbringing.
     
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    That is the unconditional love between mom and her children. I feel myself in above lines and that priceless bond remains forever (Touchwood).
     
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    Every mother will feel that. :blush:
     

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