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Mother in law who has done Black Magic? How should I behave with her?

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by mitra2009, Jan 9, 2010.

  1. strangegirl

    strangegirl Silver IL'ite

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    I wish the women who blindly say that in laws are also mothers and they dont have to do BM on their children to visit this thread and learn from people.

    I personally do not think BM can affect me, since I have no faith in it. I suspect that someone can try that on me, but it is that it won't affect me.

    Believe in God.. We cant stop others from doing it... Have a protection in you, and stop believing in that negative energy.
     
  2. CrayoNess

    CrayoNess Platinum IL'ite

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    I agree with "peacefulenchant". Such thing like black magic does not exist. If someone is abusing you get help and inform the police if required. If your husband is abusing you it is his fault. If your health is failing then you need help and you need to take care of your self. Good that things are better with your husband, your health and your job. Focus on that and forget the MIL stuff.
     
  3. sonai1

    sonai1 New IL'ite

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    Hi,

    MItra can you give me contact of the perosn who helped you with kawach for protection. Same situation here. MIL widow. Practices witchcraft, does puja of some devi I never saw any picture such that .She controlled my husband so badly , told lot of nasty stuff to me and husband was stading like dumb , can not speak over her face. Now I am staying apart for the safety of kid. She started this things after I delivered. There are lot of people online but mainly after money.
    As you got benefited , please let me know about the perosn who helped you.


     
  4. Bella13

    Bella13 New IL'ite

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    I need help.. My mother n law has been into black magic for years and found out 5 years ago and didn't want to beieve it because why would she try to hurt my kids as well? But she has been trying to break me and her son up since the day I decided to have my daughter.. Shes evil and has her son blinded with her voodoo he doesn't believe anything I say just believes her. she has voodoo dolls and oils and candles under her bed which her daughter confirmed to me. Every holiday that comes even birthdays we are miserable and argue.. Could never be happy on those days. We bought a house and she envied us for that.. Wanted her son to go and get her house fixed up right away.. She uses his money to do the voodoo and that's y it has worked on him! He lives 2 lives he supports her in everyway takes care of her financial and mortgage and car.. He accused me of being a thief when I borrowed his debt card because I didn't have any money to buy my daughters milk and food.. Mind you she has the same debit card same account and she's free to go shopping and buy expensive dinners for her and her 13 years old younger boyfriend.. I am heart broken because he now doesn't want to be with me and doesn't even think about my daughters 6yr old and 8 month old if we leave.. I know this is what she wants but I can't take it anymore of him verbally abusing me and treating me like I'm nothing.. I'm just waiting for my daughter to finish school in 2 weeks so I can find a place so he can pay the rent.. He acts like he's bipolar he is good for a while then turns into a devil! We will never be happy if she's stil around..
     
  5. guava

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    Dear OP,

    You can teach a good lesson. And prevent this for ever. Pray regularly.
    If you have gods blessing read pancha mukha hanuman stotram. Or get the devi pratyangira homam done by pandits. devi pratyangira is one form of holy mother. The spirits go back to pester the person who has done this. You can research this on google. Its a sure shot remedy. works for people pure at heart. Both remedies make the bad attacks go back to the evil doer. You just cannot take a chance with such people. What happens to them after is karma. Its not your resposiblity. you are only asking for protection and help.

    hare krishna
     
  6. EagerForInfo

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    Who was this holy person who helped you find out you are under black magic??? I think me and my family are under the influence of black magic but just don't know where and who to ask. We've been suffering since lots of years. Please let me know.


    "Last year I finally visited a holy-person, who just asked me my name, and unbelieving told me I am under the attack of evil spirits and my mother-in-law herself is a evil power .He told me all the incidents, the fire accident, the slip in the snow, etc etc just by asking my
    name.Since I nver used to believe this stuff or in astrology, I asked another person, who also told me the same thing.He told me exactly what happened.I was too shocked and strated trusting this evil attack top be 200% true.Many of you may not belive this, but it happned to me and here I ma before you typing this , how I survived.I was a victim and "
     
  7. Longlost

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    I am unable to start a thread. The post is long and hence posting here in 2 parts. I really need to pen my thoughts, else I will go mad. I do not want to depress my old parents. But I really need some honest advice!

    PART 1 :

    Ours was a love marriage. DH married me against MIL's wish around 5 years back. I gave up a coveted job so that I can be with him and he also has been making sacrifices everyday for me.

    But everything changes whenever MIL is present, be it at our rented home abroad or be it at MIL's place in India. She always talks to me and my mother normally in front of DH. But whenever he is away, she doesn't leave a chance to slyly insult me and my parents. She badmouths about me and my family in front of DH's relatives in their native language. If I complain to DH and he confronts her, MIL starts crying and making up sob stories about her imaginary illnesses. Also, all of a sudden she starts crying taking name of my late FIL whom she hated and tormented when he was alive 20 years ago! She has her own house very near to BIL's place. But, she insists on staying and sleeping next to BIL's room as she fears my FIL's ghost will haunt her! MIL is a widow who continued wearing their community mangalsutra/ neckalce, bright saris and red bindi even after FIL's death. I don't judge her for her fashion choices but I found her to be hypocrite.

    Whenever there would be a happy occasion at mine or my BIL's place, she would start crying for no reason at all and would make a very depressed face. This is not new. I remember, she started sobbing the moment our own marriage got over! My husband told me thats out of happiness! He just cant see the TRUTH!
     
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    PART 2:
    But things have got worse now. She is acting very weird, especially in temples. My MIL & DH both has strong Mangal. My FIL also had a sudden and untimely death, around 2 decades ago. So, whenever I wanted to perform someTemple Puja for me and husband's health she always tries to stop that by lying that their family Pandit said muhurat is inauspicious or some other pretext. While, when my husband called, the Pandit agreed immediately! Whenever we were at any temple during our India visit she would make a very angry unnatural face. As if something possesses her.

    My elder BIL & SIL in whose whom she stays has stopped taking her to their spiritual trips, since few years. Even my MIL's own sister had made allegations against my MIL previously that she has evil intentions.

    Not only is MIL quarrelsome and compulsive liar; whenever she is around, everything keeps falling apart. My job, health everything is at its worst. Even DH's job & health is bad. In our 5 years of marriage I hardly had 10 fights with my husband, and 8 of them were MIL related. My otherwise intelligent DH wouldn't just understand when its matter related to MIL. Especially when he is under her roof. The recent one was the worst.

    We were in his hometown for work and stayed at MIL's place. My mother came to visit me and MIL insulted her and there was a huge drama spanning all night. I stopped eating at her place for the next 36 hours using some excuse. Even my husband was ok with that. On 4th day, we spent the whole day outside for some work. The work got done and in the auto my husband told me how blessed he felt because I was in his life. We decided that we will order in Veg Biryani to celebrate the day's hardwork. Then we got down from the auto and stepped into MIL's home. MIL gave hubby some fried bhaji. And I told him lets order my veg dinner, I havent eaten all day. But he just flipped! He was adamant that I have to eat MIL's non-veg food only. After all the insults I suffered just 36 hours back, it was impossible for me to drink or eat anything at her place. We were just 24 hours away from our flight out. But hubby wouldnt just listen! As if his reasoning had stopped. It was our worst fight! I felt like leaving the man then and there! Everything felt meaningless!

    It might sound paranoid. But truth is I am scared to be alone with MIL nowadays. Even my mother who is extremely spiritual felt the same. One night Mom got up at midnight and found MIL staring at the mirror in the darkness with her hair all open. After that day, I did not let my mother sleep with MIL alone.

    I do not believe in these things, but at the same time I cannot ignore what is happening around me. I love DH but I cannot live with such weird things happening around me. I have lost all confidence and strength to continue with this marriage. Please advice!
     
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    Can u give me the name of the holy person who told u about ur problems. My family also has been suffering weird problems. Don't know what's happening !
     
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    Hi all,
    I am also a victim of my mother in law's jealousy. Mine is a love marriage approved by my in-laws only. I had to struggle hard to maintain good relationship with my parents after marriage. My mother in law is also my paternal aunt (father's sister)
    She had approved our marriage only because she didn't want her son to think bad of them. She took care of me post 2 deliveries. But it was all a show off in front of mt husband and other relatives only to prove that she is a good woman
    Initially, I too believed her to be a good woman but she slowly started to miscommunicate. Like...She used to tell me something and the same thing will be told reversely to my husband. When me and my husband talk about the same issue, we started arguing...When I tell her some important thing, and when my husband enquires about the same with my MIL...She used to say, I never told her any important thing....Fortunately I found out her tricks and stopped sharing any info with her. Whatever she said to me I used to keep it myself. Same I did with my husband too...So this stopped me from being her victim
    She is very possessive about her son. She is a jealous woman who is a 4th class school dropout village lady. She is very much introvert and never displays her feelings on her face. She is very diplomatic and never expresses her feelings outside.
    Six years ago, we built a new two storey house. Ground floor for my inlaws and 1st floor for us. Our intension was to let in laws enjoy their freedom residing in an independent 2 bedroom house but must stay with us so that we can look after them well.
    I never ever expected that this invitation to them would invite lots of problems to me.. She didn't want to come and stay with us...But she cooly agreed thinking that I would oppose her arrival in to our new house. By this, she can prove me bad ... I didn't oppose as I too wanted my in-laws to be with us forever....She waited and waited until the construction was over .. Nothing changed...At last she rejected our offer and opted to stay in our native
    She gave a 2 rupee coin wrapped in a small piece of polythene paper, which was stapled with around 6-7 pins and then tied with red, black and green thread to my husband and told him to do pooja to it daily. I sensed the danger and threw the 2 rupee coin in a river
    During one of my in-laws visit to our new house, they had threw a kerchief on the upper kitchen cabinet. When they went back, I found this knotted kerchief. When I opened it, I found a palm full of salt. As soon as I opened it, felt so tired that I felt my legs have become so weak .I could not walk one step....After work, when my husband returned home, he recognized the kerchief and said it belonged to his mother
    We got raw toor dal and moong dal mixture in a plastic cover in our terrace. Me and my husband who were so loving and caring started fighting like cats over silly issues ..This still continues....
    Now, the process of proving me wrong and bad is still on....Now my in-laws have moved to my younger brother in law's house which is just 10 minutes ride from my place...Just to prove that I am a bad lady...
    I used to get weird and fearful dreams.. Dreams in which I am dragged by evil energy....I could not sleep for couple of days...
    Then I started reciting Narasimha shloka and Vishnu Sahasranama....From the very first day of recital, I never got such dreams....I have other proofs of my MIL's activities as well which can be felt but have no physical evidence

    Now my MIL who tried doing bad to me is living like a convicted prisoner. Though my BIL and Co-sister are good to her, she has no neighbors or relatives in her place to chat with her or any activity which kept her engaged...She is mentally alone.... Though my FIL is with her physically. Whenever I visit her with my husband, she keeps staring at me. I could very well make out a ray of jealousy and intolerance on her face now. She is now a defeated lady....But am still afraid because she is very stubborn and never gives up....She was able to do all these with her younger brother's support...
    Initially my husband didn't agree on this...But when he himself saw his mother's kerchief and his mother''s recent attitude towards me....He has agreed....But as a son, he doesn't want his mother to be labelled as a BAD WOMAN....So sometimes he agrees and sometimes he denies....
    I have full faith in God...I prefer to watch rather than reacting in the same manner as my MIL....I believe that bad can't take over good, lie can't dominate truth....I keep doing good things and never expect anything bad to happen to my MIL....God is there to teach lessons to those who do bad
     
    Last edited: Aug 13, 2018

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