Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by mitra2009, Jan 9, 2010.
I'm so glad I have never been a victim of this!
ssrivatsava omg better take a divorce than get killed dear. which evil planet does these ladies come from killing mil and now after you. please stay out of all this and keep yourself safe.
Cant believe you had to go through all this. But is it worth staying on in this marriage?? that is the only question that is arising in my mind right now. my heart goes out to you dear!! why do such mom's get their sons married in the first place.she will definitely face consequences of her evil acts. god is there.be strong and avoid her as much as possible. i feel the more she sees you the more she would want to attack you. if it is not possible to avoid her at times, face her with full self confidence and talk upright.
all the best dear!! you will always be in my prayers.
I am assuming your MIL to be around 50yrs[ on the lower side] and your mils mil to be say 70yrs [again on the lower side] , so now I wonder why she would want to wait this long to "kill" her mil.
This thread was dead for more than 2 yrs and given a new lease of life by the member who has just 2 posts to her credit.
ssrivastava - What century you live in? Are you in 21st century? Stone age?
I am asking this because my guess is you are educated and you believe in black magic?
Endless, irrespective of BM, you might need to watch a few Crime Petrol shows (from real life and facts) to learn more about female mentality.... a DIL wud have been "SUFFERING" or least considered herself to be such.... until her DIL comes and now she doesn't want her reputation to be at stake in front of the new entrant to treat her as a piece of ****.... in lot such cases the elimination of MIL's MIL happens within the first year of the new entrant DIL... din't need any BM, just a few goons paid to do the job.........
these things happen??? am flashing back to some episodes of "the twilight zone"
I understand your pain. I am in a similar situation. We just found out what is going on. We consulted horoscopes, but it matched well and we did not understand why things were happening. I live in the US, I quit my job, I was depressed, I was declared underweight and anorexic. My weight was 94 lbs, 40kgs, I had terrible hair loss. I used to be 120lbs before. My parents couldn't recognize me at the airport. They cried to see me so thin and many people thought I was in 8th-10th grade.Then my husband wants separation from me. Just like you, right after marriage, I started noticing my mother in law's true colors. The first statement she told me after m husband tied the thali was " your sari is not good, it has not been tied properly". I was a little stunned. A lot of instances happened like that. I didn't take it seriously because all mothers are possessive of their son.I thought this will pass with time.
I am convent educated and an atheist. But we consulted with a very insightful astrologer. We just told him names and dates of birth with out telling him I am currently not with my husband. He immediately told me " you are currently separated, you lost your job, your husband sometime is affectionate sometimes not and he told specifically said that my mother-in law has done black magic. As usual I again passed it off, that in this day and age no one does that. On top of it, my father in a law is reputed Doctor.
We became more miserable, we consulted with another insightful astrologer on my mother's insistence. Just knowing my husband's and my name he started meditating on some shells. After a minute, he told us the exact same thing. However, he refused to tell us who did the black magic, because he said I shouldn't start a quarrel with her. Third person, we went to was a holy man of God. Again, I didnt believe in Him, but as I went near his presence, I felt a calm and peace. He gave me packet of "vibhuti" and asked me to wear on my forehead everyday. Why he gave me the vibhuti started making sense to me.
All the incidents that happened started falling in place in my mind, I realized it.
First worst tragedy was after my engagement and right before my marriage. My mother was hospitalized for a normal stomach ache. The Doctor performed wrong surgeries and she ended up in ICU till the day before our wedding. Everyone thought she won't make it and wedding would be postponed. But fortunately she made it and our wedding took my smoothly. My m-i-l a very friendly person was quiet and rude during the wedding. And just the day before the wedding, a street dog that roams our house died. Now we understand that the black magic done to my mother to stop the wedding has been absorbed by the dog.
I had a terrible car wreck last year. It is purely by Grace of God, I am alive.
I am realizing how wicked she is to ruin a girl's life.
But on the positive side, I started believing strongly in God and recite slokas everyday. I meditate on God and have full faith that my husband will come back and get me and the evil force will disappear
I know its been sometime that you posted but I do sincerely hope things have gotten better for you
Well, if this is something you dont believe in, why the heck are you searching under this topic and reading all the contents including the time stamps and making comments. Perhaps, if you dont believe in it, you shouldnt be here in the first place, unless you have time to burn.