Dear ladies My mother in law compares with me with all the DIL's she knows of. Mostly those people are older than me or not working. Recently I have noticed one of my aunt in law calls my Mil and says bad things about her own DIL. After listening to that my MIL is treating me badly. She says things like girls salary should be used by husbands family . Husbands family is important and girls family should be treated like trash. My mother law is getting influenced by this aunt and many other people like her. I am already not in good rapport with my MIL and this aunt is causing further damage. what do I do?