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Mommy to be July 2013

Discussion in 'Due Date Clubs' started by Mommyhoney2012, Nov 9, 2012.

  1. helpmeangel

    helpmeangel Platinum IL'ite

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    hi ssm,

    please ignore their stupid words and concentrate on being happy. after a couple of years atmost, all this will be forgotten. please carry on with your life without bothering about relatives.
     
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    helpmeangel Platinum IL'ite

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    ladies,

    I have got fever and cold. Am not sure if I can take any medications for the same. Please advice!!
     
  3. mathu903

    mathu903 Gold IL'ite

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    Hey helpmeangel,

    My doc suggested me to have Plain Panadol (not Panadol Cold and Flu or Panadol Pain Relief etc) when having cold. She said Panadol is safe. Maybe you can give it a try..
     
  4. Swatir23

    Swatir23 Gold IL'ite

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    i agree with u ssm,i m also not getting any attention or advise from my MIL she used to call and ask when we were trying...after getting pregnant she didnt show any care for me never asked if i need anything....anyway u have to ignore them....my mom keeps giving me tips but she says confirm with doctor if u r not agreed.
    when ur MIL is here just tell them u are advised for rest by doctor till first 3 months and dont do any housework...if u do no MIL in world will come and stop u...u hav eto put limit to urself.

    one more tip my DH also used to support my MIL in her every action so sometime i used my brain example-as my MIL used to cook only dal khichadi in evening but i wanted more nutritious food so i told my DH while checking inside doctor told me to take full food salad,sabji,roti both the times(in actual no one told me:))...so my dh supported me by saying my MIL to cook all food both the time

    sometime u have to be clever to handle ur DH for his Mother or father :thumbsupat least in my case i need to do that otherwise my DH thinks his mom is always right.:rant
    also i will suggest avoid telling others about twins....i did not get good comments from my in laws itself so i learned and didnt tell anybody else outside

    my update-
    yesterday one of my DH's friend and his wife came to our house his wife guessed by looking at me that i m expecting...(that means i have started showing my tummy:)).
     
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  5. prchitra

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    SSM,

    You are the best person to know about your ILs. So you use your brain to have healthy food during your stay with them.. ask your DH to inform your MIL to avoid all Potato kind of food to you..

    I am also seeing you are fond of eating Pizza.. You are already overweight and still adding cheese items & Maida base in diet.. :(.. Make your own choice.. Even home made Pizza or Outside one is not good for you..

    But strangely you are saying weight is reduced 2 Kgs..(is weighing machine working correctly ???:confused2:).. Dont worry about this weight loss.. even my cousin sis also saying she reduced weight during first trimester.. but she picked up afterwards..

    First reduce your stress..(Hear some good songs.. do some meditation).. Days will go very fast.. You will soon get settled in the new place..
     
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    ladies,

    my baby stopped growing and no blood flow was detected. So i am doing a d&C today. please pray for me. we are devastated with the news.
     
  7. r2r

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    yes I'll be going to Delhi.And then from Delhi to Chandigarh(my place) or Kotkapura, Punjab(in-laws), depending upon our plan and my condition.Thats very true, delivery is a tough time and I think only mothers can give that much of love and care which you will need at that time.
     
  8. hermioneron

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    oh god..helpme...i feel soooooooooooooo bad now...donno y god is doing all this..

    hope u get all the strength which u need...

    take care
     
  9. prchitra

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    Ohh my god.. sad news.. Helpmeangel.. be strong....Definitely god is planning something for you..i will pray for you!
     
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    Hey feeling extremely bad and depressed to read this. I hope God gives you enough strength to recover through this bad phase. Sorry for asking, how many weeks were you?
     

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