Misscarriage and unable to conceive

Re: 1st Child Miscarriage @ 6 weeks unable to conceive since

hello my dear sister
donot wory leave everything to god.he knows wht to give for us at right time.so dont think negative never.think positive.when every god decide to give baby u will get it

 

Re: 1st Child Miscarriage @ 6 weeks unable to conceive since

Hello Janaki,

Welcome to IL. Sorry about ur miscarriage. Nothing is in our hands. So dont feel guilt for it.Dont lose hope. Leave everything to God. He will take care of it. Be positive and relax your mind. If you are employed then concentrate on ur job otherwise do some meditation. Once you are conceived take care of your health.

Hope we will hear good news from you soon.

regards
Lakshmi

 

Re: 1st Child Miscarriage @ 6 weeks unable to conceive since

Hi janaki,

Sorry for your loss. dont think why? Dont start feeling guilty. it was not in your hands. some things are better left in gods hands.
First be happy, remove the guilt, be relaxed u will definitely be blessed. Not only physical but emotional health is also important.

Take care

 

Re: 1st Child Miscarriage @ 6 weeks unable to conceive since

Hi, Sorry to hear about your loos. I was blessed twice but unfotuntly things went wrong so had two loss of pregnancys. I take it as a god wish, but don't think its your fault. There are lots of lots of cases like us so its not you did that intentionally. The more you feel negtive about it, the more you will get stressed out. You being blaming yourself making things more worse. I would suggest you to since its been two years you are trying, its time to talk to infertility specialist now. You got pregnant easily first time, so I don't think there is any major issues here. Doctor can do your thorugh tests and if they find any problem, there are lots of good treatment availble too. So don't give it up. First you have to be strong physcially and emotionally. Thinking all the time about kids is not healthy. Try to divert your mind in other things. May god bless you with lots of kids. And have faith in god. Bhagwan ke ghar der hai...andher nahi. Good luck and baby dust.

 

Re: 1st Child Miscarriage @ 6 weeks unable to conceive since

Hi Janaki

I am undergoing the same at present. I too expereinced 2 miscarriage and trying to conceive for the past 9 months. In my 1st pregnancy it was a blighted ovum and 2nd a miscarriage. Then i took a complete test in india and laproscopy was done every thing was fine in me but i had a slight thyroid variation and PCO . So till last month i was taking medicine for PCO but for the past 6 months my periods were so eratic i went to india last month and consulted a gyno . She asked me to check for Sept and Aug and then get back to her in oct. It is all a matter of time and i am also undergoing the stress and pain.So have patience .

There were days when i would feel more dejected to even have my food or sleep well. These mental state all women undergo. I also didnt had a good relationship with my buddy, but he understands my mental state. So please discuss with ur buddy on it and take necessary steps . Please donot worry much as it affects our body a lot. So Take care of urself. First to rule out any fear in mind do a complete test of u and also ur buddy if things are fine leave it to God.

All the best.

 

Re: 1st Child Miscarriage @ 6 weeks unable to conceive since

Thanks a lot sisters. Your advice helped me a lot. Being away from home land this forum does makes me feel that i am near my dears.

again thanks a lot

 

Miscarriage

Hi,

I just had a second miscarriage. Both due to my Beta HCG not doubling. Is there any reason for this? Anbody gone through this and had a successful pregnancy? I am so much worried. I would really appreciate if anyone can send me their experience with this..

Thanks,
sita

 

Re: Miscarriage

Have faith in god, what do the doctors say!!i am sure that there is hope.

 

Re: 1st Child Miscarriage @ 6 weeks unable to conceive since

Dear Sister,

Dont loose hope. I am sorry for the loss. my prayers are always with you. First thing is if you dont have any fertility issues nothing to worry. Some times it will take some time to conceive. try ovalation kit that helps you a lot finding most ovalation days. Now a days somany couples are there streching thier hands to have baby. Be in postive attitude definately your wish will come true. Consult infertility counceler they will definately help you out regarding conceiving. Dont worry , be happy..

...Chinni

 

Dont let down your hopes

Dear Sita
I have had my share too. I had 3 abortions in my mid trimester. Believe me, its not a pleasant experience but nonetheless we have to keep living our life with hopes. Atleast you problem is diagnosed but i have done all possible latest medications only to be declared no problem at all. there is always a solution when you know the problem than not knowing the problem at all. I even had my uterus stiched and was confined to bed from say one of my pregnancy positive during my 3rd pregnancy. But all only to loose my child.
I took weekly injection of HCG from 4th to 15th week. I think even you would have been injected with it since it was your second pregnancy. I dont remember much of the details HCG at the moment.
Hope for the best. Never feel depressed or take to self-pity. Keep praying god, especially Lord Krishna. My prayers are with you.