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Mind over matter

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by iyerviji, Apr 22, 2009.

  1. iyerviji

    iyerviji IL Hall of Fame

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    Whenever we meet someone and they ask how r u, we immediately say I am fine, whether we are fine or not. Then only we feel today we are not so fine. Being fine is the state of mind. We don’t pour our feelings to each and everyone. Only to our near and dear we can tell our feelings.

    Some people understand our problems and know how to console the people who are sad. Some don’t know how to console them though they want to console them. Light troubles speak , great troubles are silent.

    For some people if they let out their feelings they feel good and their heart is light. Some don’t speak out and keep everything in their heart.

    In science you must not talk before you know, in art you must not talk before you do, in literature u must not talk before you think. We have to be well versed in conversation. Then only we will be able to talk.
     
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  2. archana2008

    archana2008 Gold IL'ite

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    Very well said Vijji. Thanks for indepth short description of Mind over Matter.. Awesome. :thumbsup
     
  3. iyerviji

    iyerviji IL Hall of Fame

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    Dear Archana

    Thanks for the immediate fb. Good to know you liked it.

    love
    viji

     
  4. Nithu

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    Dear viji aunty,
    100% true what u have written. Better share the problems to others.
     
  5. Devika Menon

    Devika Menon Gold IL'ite

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    Dear Viji,

    A perfect analysis. You know Im really glad that you come up with such blogs that help us understand so many aspects of life.

    Great blog Viji. Absolutely loved it.

    Love,
    Devika
     
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    Richa_05 Senior IL'ite

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    Viji aunty,
    You have written so aptly. In today's world 'gift of the gab' is the key to success. And very well said that light troubles speak and great troubles are silent, I am a person who would never speak of my troubles to anybody. I deal with it myself in my own way, I try to analyse it and then find ways to solve it. But cannot hide it from my DH and DS cause my face shows it all........cannot hide my feelings inside. But those who are far from me, always feel like I'm on the ninth cloud and that there's nothing to bother. I like it that way cause I don't want anybody to be sad because of me.

    Very well written post, short and sweet......to the point. Thanks for sharing.
     
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    Dear Raji,

    Excellant writeup. Enjoyed it.
     
  8. ALPA

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    Vijiji
    nice write up. i have a haabit of pouring out my feelings and that way i feel lighter.
    love
    alpa:cheers
     
  9. Padmasrinivas

    Padmasrinivas Silver IL'ite

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    Dear Viji,

    Your blog reminds me of my father who would never talk about his actual feelings or thoughts to others, even if he was feeling very low and depressed. He would say that talking about it would make matters worse, 'Mind over matter' was his way of dealing with the issue and literally dissolving it...
    I am also tempted to say that the 'Face is the mirror of one's Mind', this is 100% true in my case... one look and everyone would look into the depths of my heart and soul! At such times, i just withdraw into my shell and work out the tension in my own way.

    But psyching oneself up to say 'I'm fine' is actually the best therapy. The power of suggestion works miracles on the mind!

    Great idea for an indepth discussion, Viji dear!:thumbsup

    Loved it!

    Jai Bhavani Maa!
    Love,
    Padma


     
  10. sharadha

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    Dear Viji,

    Happiness can be shared with anyone but unhappiness can be shared only with our near and dear. Even if we don't share our happiness, Its always better to share our worries to lessen it.
     

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