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MIL's insecure feeling & ds momma's boy - then why marriage?

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by shobanakamal, Jun 22, 2015.

  1. shobanakamal

    shobanakamal New IL'ite

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    Hi ladies,
    Im about to gtg married in few months.Well i hv these few question's in my head (konjam ille, niraiyave mandaikulle kodaiyuthu!).
    1) Y mil's are feeling insecure about dil's?
    2) If thy're feeling insecure, y thy wanted to agree / or arrange for the marriage?
    3) Thy hd cared for their ds for 20/30+ yrs or more, y dont thy just let the dil to care for their ds after marriage? dil's too have motherly feelings na?
    4) Expecting dil's leave everythg behind and join them, y dont ds leave everythg behind and join the wife? double standard? We too are earning, we too have a family to tc, mom dad.(avungalukku maddum than, irukanggala?)
    5) Why thy're not happy when ds & dil go out, or plan somthg together?
    6) If thy expect their ds to care for them, gv impotance to them only, what is the point, ds having a wife and kid?
    7) A wife allowed to spend time with dh at night only?

    So much in my head right now, but enough for now i guess, :)
     
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