Hi all we are planning to relocate to bangalore soon, recently we got a house in bannerghatta, i don't know how to do the milkboiling ceremony over there for a rented home, here we used to do some small pooja and ganapathy homam and we boil the milk and share with our neighbours, we are planning to do a simple ceremony and we will take all our things gradually since we are not yet find a job yet,here whenever we used to take a full pot of water,salt and sugar on the day of the milkboiling ceremony, but we rarely change the house.we only did thrice so far. i have lost my mom so i am the one who have to take care of the poojas, so i am requesting i'lites to share your customs which i have to do on that day.what are the things i have to carry and enter inside the home, if i could not do the elaborate pooja in the morning is it o.k. to do that in the evening? we are planning to do that on coming 16th of sep( sravana masam) on the day of onam,it is on monday, is it alright to do it on that day? is it o.k to stay on that particular house on previous nights before the day of M.B. Ceremony?, because we don't know anyone over there or that area accomadation to stay safely.do we need to stay there in the house for somedays after the ceremony? which are the areas nearby to bannerghatta ( to get the jobs) which is easily reachable by public transports? is there any female teacher who is teaching kannada to speak,read and write. since we are very depressed after my mom's death, we feel so shocked and sad for the past 8 months,i am feeling that i must change the negativity and bring the same cheerfulness and success when we were lived with our beloved mother, so i am choose to bring happiness and new growth in our life with the blessings of our mom, mydad and brothers are reluctant to relocate to the unknown city since we don't know kannada and hindi to speak fluently, somehow i made them to agree with my plan of change the city and expect a positive outcome. I request you all the i'lte friends to help me by sharing your suggestions.and also please suggest me any poojas to do to get a goodjob,and temples over there to visit because i am searching from last may onwards but i got only the jobs with the salary of 10 to 12k which is less amount to live there.even for the responsible positions i got only the salary of 14k which is very less for my work experience and skills.
