Hi, Its just a vent. Married for 9 years and ours is a love marriage. Fil passed away an year before the wedding. No issues with the MIL. I just have maintained a good relationship with my Mil. She was living with her mom. Her mom passed away few weeks ago. And her brother's family is living next to them. My mil is retired from a central govt job this month. Her brother and his wife also getting retired next month. My mil is a type where she always find mistakes in everything. It's very difficult to satisfy her. Even when i was in Bangalore, we invite her many times. She used to come and stay for 2 or 3 days and go back. She don't like staying there and always says that this city is not good. Even if I take her to shop or restaurant, she will say something and make that situation so embarrassing. I won't talk back much and just adjust to that situation. So she is feeling like a control over me. Now, we didn't invite her yet to the USA. Since she was working and she was with her mom.Her mom was very healthy and helpful to my MIL after she go to work. MIl's mom used to do household work. Last few months she(mil mom) was bedridden and her brother family took care of her. Now all 3 are retiring, they are planning to come to USA. Her brother is like very orthodox and not accept any modern things. Today my parents met them. They told like, they are taking passports(only my mil has passport) and planning to go to USA in the summer. My parents also doesn't have passport. They didn't talk to us about this. They themselves planning this. DH is a gem person who won't talk back much to his family. So when I told him that my parents said your family is planning to come to US, he is happy about it. Even I am ok and not a cruel person here. Only concern is, it's very Difficult to satisfy them here and they will make me feel like, I am living a very bad life here. Why we should come so far to live this life. They will make the situation like that. They did that when I was in Bangalore. They don't even like not even one thing there. Did any of your relatives from India visited you in USA? How do you handle that?