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MIL situation, not sure what to do!!

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by mariegold, Oct 22, 2014.

  1. JustLikeYou

    JustLikeYou Gold IL'ite

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    Dear OP,

    Ignore your MIL's taunting words. Do what you like. If your husband wants to report it to his mom, let him do it. When she complains back, ignore. Let her realize that whatever she says falls on a deaf ear. At some point your husband would realize that he is just aggravating the situation by telling everything to his mom so he will stop reporting. If he continues even after that then it means he is hurting his mom. You dont have to worry too much.

    Regarding your parents, tell your parents to stop calling your ILs. I did this to mine. I told them if they don't reciprocrate and don't call you even once, you stop it as well. It took them a while to do it. But they did stop eventually.

    Regarding spending for every occasion, ask them to stop it. Your MIL can complain, if your parents still continue because of her pestering, start sending money from your account to your parents for all the expenses that they did. This will send a message to your husband.
     
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  2. mariegold

    mariegold Junior IL'ite

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    Thank you so much OP and Indus Ladies.
     

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