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Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by Sangeeta85, Feb 28, 2017.

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    I know you dint mean to hurt me .
     
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    @Sunshine did the fasting today as said..

    But she gets involved in everything .. my son had asked for cucumber so I peeled the skin there she goes again don't take the skin of everything it has nutritional.. I just kept quiet but peeled it anyway n gave it.. so
    I want to ask did I do the right way or should I had to say something like he likes it this way..
     
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    Can u imagine i have become so helpless n even my mind does not understand i m doing right or wrong.. believe me ladies this happens only with my inlaws and other places I take my decisions and even tell my decisions to my husband or any one in that matter..
     
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    You did the right thing.No need to talk to her for these things.
     
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    ..ok I m happy knowing I did right.
     
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    Yes ,it's true.this happens with in-laws and Indian culture.
    It
     
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    Afternoon ladies...
    As all said to reduce talking I did that .. from yesterday my mil was talking little to me so was I too..when my husband came she acted normal and morning again she was so quiet like she would do before all those fight n I would end up asking her what happened did I do wrong yes I asked those questions to her years back and today she thought I would do the same but all had suggested not to talk n take a stand so I did not speak to her much just 2 3 sentences I I kept quiet n did my work n tv was on .. she sat n watched it but started to speak as she knew my husband will wake up now.. wen she acted normal I did too..

    But was so scared my leg was shaking but acted lik m not went to tell hubby mil is not speaking but he was sleeping came out without saying a word n decided I will stand up for me this time if she creates a drama..also if she creates drama I will create one too ..

    Thanks ladies wanted to tell u I did it n I felt good...
     
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    Fil use to tell me not to make my son sleep at 9 when he was 4 years old ,now wen cosis daughter 2 yr going to kindergarten he is telling her make her sleep by 9..I want to say something to them can u tell me how to say that ..
    I thought of saying u said me that Time y make him sleep so early 8 hrs is enough..
     
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    i also know if I say something mil n fil both will create drama or say we did not say anything of that or make ugly faces n sit..
    Don't know wat to do but I want to say something.. another 4 days to go
     
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    Today hubby car was not on the drive way so he asked me to park but we had a guy come to work so told his car needs to park here so he said he can park out I told ok just biz I did not park wen so on my face he says wat a lazy lady u r..
     

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