Hi every one, My background, I am in USA from 6 yrs, married from 8 yrs.I m working as software Engineer. My MIL made my 1st year of married life very worst.Even my husband feels bad now his did to me in 1st year.Then we shifted in USA.I started my job here also. My MIL is coming every year here as she is staying alone there in India.Only last year, I called my parents as I wanted to show them USA.As usual my MIL doesn't like it.My MIL doesn't like single thing I did for my parents.When i called my parents here, she fought many time with my husband saying not to call them and waste money.Even she said bad words to my parents. Now again she is here from last 5 months.. she is cursing me and my parents saying "May god do bad things to your parents.May their son may not take care them .God should make you and your brother fight.God should break my relation my brother". If I talked or argued then again she talks worst bad words. Nothing help, what ever I talk she talks more bad.Last time when this happen, I just said to her "Thanks for you blessing for me." She always thinks that I behaves badly with her as I don't listen to her all commends and I talk minimum to her. Because her bad thinking, I don't feel like talking to her.But do care for her.So did many good things for her which she doesn't count. Also biggest issue is her comparison.She will compare me with every one in all around world.And tells me "how they do good things, I don't do it. How bad I am and how good they are." She covered all daughter,daughter in law, neighbor, friends, cousins from my side and husband side for comparison with me.Even though entire relatives are saying bad words about few daughter in law , My MIL will say "see how good she is and how bad you are". Now I am very much depressed with her words(cursing) for my parents.My husband wants me to forget things fast and behave normally with her, which is very hard for me. Ladies, it is easy to forget those cursing?