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Matrimony Ads . Modern Or Traditional?

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Light, Oct 1, 2017.

  1. Naari

    Naari Platinum IL'ite

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    Hmm, M & T means we are keeping it ambiguous & will sway either way depending on the person we meet:laughing:
     
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    nandinimithun IL Hall of Fame

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    To me it means.... A balance between yourself and the society....

    Dancing to the dandiyas aswell dancing in a pub....

    Hanging out with friends,
    and going out with family...

    Keeping in touch with friends and always being there for family..

    In short, spreading happiness and smiles wherever you go....
     
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    Which is better?
    Modern in thoughts, traditional in dressing up
    Or
    Modern in dresssing up but traditional in thoughts
     
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    50/50
     
  5. nandinimithun

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    As long as you are happy and joyful in whatever you wear and carry yourself, doesnt matter....

    Traditional or modern, both are a way of telling a woman, what to wear, how and when.... So whatever u wear, remember to wear that gorgeous smile n spread it to others too
     
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    Not just dressing.... but many things in life are based on perceptions, set of beliefs and hearsay stories....

    I feel its always nice to accept a person as they are, irrespective of how they dress or what they dress.... For me it doesnt matter if a girl comes in tube tops n mini skirts to a temple, its her choice....

    When we accept people for their choices and understand things from their perspective, i guess this world will be a better place to live.... ( this is just my opinion)
     
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    Modern yet traditional bride means this:-
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  8. SGBV

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    Jokes apart, this traditional yet modern kind of branding happens a lot in the marriage market.
    This happens to be the most selling brand, with a very wide range of demand.

    What does this traditional yet modern brand means?
    A woman with a very modern thought (namely open minded, broad minded, less controlling, less nagging, less demanding, less depending, more independent, educated, etc) and traditional in looks (means, prefer traditional/ethnic dressing, humble, respectful, soft spoken, homely, take more responsibilities at home front, adjusting etc)
    This is the great strategy, that helps the man 100%.
    Because a full traditional woman sometimes become a burden with her inability and complete dependency when it comes to our fast and modern life.
    A full modern woman may be a threat with her freedom, and financial independence. She may chose not to take any craps in the name of tradition. She may demand equality in a marriage, and sometimes refuse to respect others just for the sake of it.
    So, Indian men prefer this combo traditional yet modern; hence the high demand.

    Basically the producers produce their products as the market demand only.
    That's why, Indian parents prepare their DDs to grow modern by educating them, giving them a career, independence etc... yet forcing them to be so traditional, like respecting in laws, forget about parents after marriage, and bend over backward with H's demands etc..
     
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    All the rules and laws, traditional or modern applies to only women....

    Coz hey, freedom for a woman to think what she needs isnt right.... she always has her parents, siblings, spouse, children and inlaws to think for....( i meant in a sarcastic note)
     
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    I am hoping Mr Light doesn't get lightheaded seeing all our responses:smiley:
     

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