Some SAHMs rely on ayas and maids to look after young ones and also send them for tuitions later on. All STHMs are not perfect Moms and all working Moms should not be made to feel guilty. Lets see what one has to say after 15/20 years , of being totally dependent on DH and facing the empty nest syndrome. Why do Moms need validation to stay at home with kids or be working Moms? Working Moms deserve kudos for balancing both the worlds.