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Marriages - Made in Heaven?

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by manjulapathy, Sep 6, 2009.

  1. manjulapathy

    manjulapathy Senior IL'ite

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    Hi maya!
    We are indeed blessed. I really feel sorry for people who crib for everything. Why cant we stop and think 'what we have' instead of 'what we dont have'.....Thank you Maya
    manjula

     
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    bars62 Senior IL'ite

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    hi manjula

    you are very correct in saying that though marriages are made in heaven it has to be lived on earth!!!

    i really feel very sorry for the girl.

    bars62
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    ammulu15 New IL'ite

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    This is very surprising, surprised about the first marriage father-in-law and surprised about the second guy who agreed for divorce knowing that his child was close to your friend. I strongly think that both the guys are not lucky to have such a loving girl in their lives. I pray god will send a lucky person to have that girl in his life and make her life wonderful.
     
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    manjulapathy Senior IL'ite

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    Hi bharathy!
    Thanks for your FB. All our prayers are with her
    manjula

     
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    manjulapathy Senior IL'ite

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    Hi Ammulu!
    Even if god sends someone I personally dont think she will have nerve to marry again. If the reason had been different may be it is possible. But with this kind of gory incidents
    in her life I have serious doubts
    Thank you for your FB
    Manjula

     
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    anuani2202 New IL'ite

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    Hi manjula,
    I have always been a reader behind the screen. no blogging no posting .but this blog of yours has dragged me to post . this is a very thought provoking topic.
    Two failed marriages and she has faced them ,then your friend must be courageous and emotionally mature by now. I don't see this as fate or dosam but just as another relationship failure. And this is not THE END for her. she has still long way to go, as in her case she is not reason for relationship to break. Its a good sign that she has accepted this failure and have a positive approach towards relationship and her life. who knows she might definitely come across Mr. Right and may be she would be mature enough to select him by then. Don't you think understanding life takes time. some learn it in easy way and some in hard way. May be she is of type 2


    i see so many idlites with great views and great ideas . now tell me is marriage that important for a relationship!. why cant we as parents, sibling, or as friends just accept people as what they are. why do a girl or boy need to be married at a age. why we in the name of society blame each other for any failures. and on top why we need to do , act and live for society and live and do things that we enjoy .... atleast for a moment.!!!

    rdgs
    Anu
     
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    manjulapathy Senior IL'ite

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    Hi Anu!
    Thank you for the wonderful and thought provoking FB!! answer to your question differs from generation to generation and from person to person. If you ask me I feel marriage is important for a relationship.If you put this question in post many members will be able to answer you.
    thank you,
    Manjula
     

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