Marriage is a life time of togetherness

When two people get married their marriage will be filled with sweet melodies of ever growing love and a lifetime of togetherness. Their journey begins as Husband and Wife, a time that’s meant to create the best years of their life. After engagement they get to know each other, in the way that’s best for both of them. Their life is different before the children are born, because that time they live for each other, love and gladness fill their hearts adding tender beauty. In the early days of marriage they come to know each other and start their life with eagerness to know about each other. It’s a bed of roses in the beginning. As days go on and when they know more about each other there will be small fights and arguments. If they adjust with each other then life goes on smoothly. In olden days there were mostly arranged marriages only and however the husband may be they used to adjust and they used to regard their husband as God. There were less of love marriages those days. When the girl gets married every one at her place will advise her to be true to her husband, to adjust with everyone in the family and respect the elders and do what the elders tell them. Girls also used to belike that. Those days the parents never used to take them back. Any problems in inlaw’s house, they used to tell the girl only to adjust. So some girls never used to tell their parents about their problems and solve the problems themselves.

Once the children are born the husband and wife become more close to each other. The wife sometimes gives more importance to the children . She spends more time with the children and teaches them the good things in life. She has the duty of bringing up the child in a good manner. If the child is good everyone will give credit to the mother only for bringing up the child. In those days girl children were brought up with more care as they have to be married in proper age. If they don’t get married at the correct time they used to get worried. Sometimes the mother does not know whose side to take because for her the children are also important and husband also. If the child is good the husbands take credit and say its my son or daughter. But if the child is not good then they will say its all your upbringing to the wife. Previously girls were not allowed to go out much so they did not know the world much . They used to study only upto X and then they were married. Some girls never used to study much.

Now times have changed girls study more and they are given choice to select their partners. Girls also want a good educated and well settled boy with all the facilities.
There are many love marriages. Some marriages break up after engagement , some after marriage as they cant adjust with each other..

Now a days people are not so much happy as before. Where there is understanding and adjustment between the couples , those marriages are successful.

 

Dear Siriveda


Thank you for stepping in and i enjoyed reading your reply. I agree to yur last line.

love
viji

 

Dear Jaya

Thank you for stepping in. In marriage you require adjustment mainly then that marriage is a success

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viji

 

Dear Bhargavi

Thank you for your feedback. Good to know you enjoyed the post.

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viji

 

Dear Padmini

Thanks for your feedback. Good to know you liked my post.

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