If you r working already then it's fine. Discuss about his financial details, how much he has to spend, and how long he have to spend to his brother. Wherever you go, you would get some sorts of hassles in other way. So, this guy was straight, and told about his family condition. In today's trend both have to work for better living. Kids L.K.G admission costs you 50k to 1 lakh. So, before u decline the offer, think twice. There is nothing wrong in helping the disabled sibling. In my op, the guy would take care you better, though there are certain issues, but wherever you go , you would get hassles in other way. It is upto you in deciding whether you want him or not. There are guys who claim they don't have any commitments, but spends lavishly on clubs and others things. At least the guy s spending for his sibling and knows family financial situation. Also make sure about what his sister-in-law doing .