Hi all.. Just venting!! Any suggestions are welcome.. When I was not well my mil come to me and instead of helping me out or making me feel better..she says.. why can't you take care of yourself..because of you not being well my son is so sad and upset..we all are so sad seeing him..he is so tired.. Seriously..when your son was not well last week I took care of him day and night and one day I'm not well you tell me this!! And now I got a cold and he told his mother..just feel like picking up the phone and tell him..please don't bother telling ur parents I'm not well..it doesn't matter..I don't want any fake concerns from her..because she said the above.. But no I can't tell anything because I'm the DIL..I always have a problem with her is what he thinks..she is the sweetest person as per the world.. I have never resented any person so much..she indirectly says things and I should be OK..and husband says maybe your interpretation is not right..but I can see all that fakeness.. I don't expect any help from her even if the going gets tough I don't care i will mange my things..I don't like people keeping their help as a string over me to pin point and play me as a puppet.. And she one of the most insecure person I have seen..everything is a competition..and I hate that..I make something she praises me alright in front of people but sees to that next time she does double of that..seriously!! Ignore ignore was the majority suggestions from people for problems..but sometimes my blood boils so bad I wanna buy a punching bag just to exert all my anger!!