I disagree Satchi. Isn't this discrimination and IL is against it last time I checked. Talking about caste, color and posting discriminating threads is not something I thought IL would entertain saying we should discuss the topic in hand. Well the topic itself is rubbish in the first place. Are we OK with people talking about sex poses, how to beat spouses? NO. This in my opinion falls in the same category. Very belittling women and their capabilities. As a women community I think we need to stand for what we preach. Women not to be valued skin deep, but for what they are worth. I don't even want to start with casteism Please don't take wrong or that I am questioning the mods here, just I felt we, as a community should have a stand what is being discussed. Especially with so much spousal violence in this world, this is the least we can do for our fellow sisters. Give them the confidence virtually. Hope you take me in the right way !!